Going out with friends..without Husband/wife

[Shalimar]

I’ve been my husbands shadow for 10yrs now 24/7 and we don’t stop talking and laughing terry and sometimes crying together

I think people often have different needs. It is difficult to prescribe a best status to any one form of relationship. I certainly can see the beauty of your experience, and it doesn’t seem unhealthy to

me. I am less concerned with the amount of time people spend together than the quality of it. You share a great love, and I find your story inspiring. As a therapist, my job is to help couples find

what works for them, rather than some societal sanctioned mindset which may be a poor fit indeed. For some, marriage partners fill their emotional needs, outside stimulation is not required.

 

[charry]

I think people often have different needs. It is difficult to prescribe a best status to any one form of relationship. I certainly can see the beauty of your experience, and it doesn’t seem unhealthy to

me. I am less concerned with the amount of time people spend together than the quality of it. You share a great love, and I find your story inspiring. As a therapist, my job is to help couples find

what works for them, rather than some society sanctioned mindset which may be a poor fit indeed. For some, marriage partners fill their emotional needs, outside stimulation is not required.

exactly shalimar......Thankyou xx