I remember my late FIL pressuring us to have kids. He told us we were selfish. I told him if he was willing to pay all their expenses we would have one right away. That shut him up.
Because men mature slower than women. Also, men don't usually settle on a permanent career or job field until they're around 32 or so, plus by then they're usually established enough to be approved for home and auto loans, and responsible enough to manage them.
