As an American, I would almost choose the 1980's. We had enough technology to make life somewhat easy (and interesting), yet not what I see as almost destructive technological forces in cell phones glued to peoples ears at all times, instant pornography that destroys normal relationships, and a constant need to keep updating, updating, and updating. Also, we no longer had a draft and had no major wars. Folks were happy to have an old car and a 3 br modest ranch home with 1 bathroom back then.
I think if one actually had to live in the late 1800's (or other older time) and contend with a lack of electricity, good plumbing, easy transportation, and available food, one would probably think twice.