Good ole days without internet and cable.....

fancicoffee13

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Seems like the good ole days were when we focused on our neighbors, friends and loved ones more when we weren't so "fast paced" with the internet and all those upscale violent shows on now to influence the rest of our kids. Plus, the television went off at the count down at about 10 pm!
 

The Internet, IMO, is the best piece of technology that has become commonplace in recent years. The wealth of information on the Net, and the online shopping is great. TV, however, seems to have descended into little more than endless commercials....and shows aimed at a 14 yr. old mentality.
And then, there are cell phones....I hope that today's younger people, especially, wake up and realize that there is a lot more to life than texting and tweeting.
 

I miss those days we ride bikes in the neighborhood, play tag, hopscotch, drew grafitti on walls ( hey dad! I confess it was me). We got a few board games but we had more fun playing outside with other kids. Dad taught us to play chess and he gave special treats when we beat him, though very rare. He said knowing how to play chess sharpens ones mind. I miss my childhood when life was simple.
 
I wish the kids today had the happy care free days that I had. Most of the Mom's were stay at home Mom's and they all looked out for the kids in the neighborhood. We had a certain bedtime and we always had dinner time with the family all sitting and talking about our day. Sadly because of the circumstanses of today most Mom's have to work to make ends meet.
 
I was just thinking about all these electronic gizmos while packing for a trip we are about to take. It seems it took me an extra half hour finding the case for my laptop, making sure I have the charger for my phone, little camera and also my Kindle which I have music on so the hubby and I can listen to it in the car.
I guess it would be easier to just leave the whole mess at home but I suppose slowly but surely I have become hooked on these gadgets.
I don't have a smart phone so I guess that would eliminate all these extra wires and such but I don't adapt easily to this new technology.
At my age I'll keep what I have and be happy.
 
I was born in 1946 and grew up in a time that was less dangerous to be a kid. We use to ride our bikes every where without any fear of being kidnapped...or worse. We played simple games. We walked to school. We went to church and Sunday School. We had holiday's with family. We ate together at every meal. Life was so much simpler for kids. There was the occasional bully in school but not like today. We watched 3 channels on our small screen black and white tv and listened to the radio. We had one telephone that had a 5-digit number. Little did I realize that I was living in the best time ever.
 
Well, I was born in 1933 and I am happy we got a refrigerator before WWII broke out. Even though we had a washing machine, with the rollers on it, my grandmother still used a scrub board for stubborn stains. But, when I do look back at some of the simpler things, I feel ever so sorry for today's youth. We used a great deal of imagination during our play times. I would have loved the internet in high school and college, but all those hours of research in libraries didn't kill me. My son's next door neighbor has a 16 yr. old son who doesn't move outside. Just plays video games when he's not in school. Been doing that for years. What a shame. Kids today are all in organized sports. Pick up games in my day were the greatest. We had a tv in 1945 as my mother won it. It was boring then and even worse today. I like the cell phone for when I leave home. Yes, I miss the good old days of good music and nice dancing as well. But, don't tell today's kids what they are missing for you'll become a laughing stock, so I keep our precious little secret.
 
In my day, we didn't have mass shootings with AR-15s. Killers stalked their victims -- sometimes for months! And killings went on for years -- not just for a few hours! What has this world come to?
 
I wish the kids today had the happy care free days that I had. Most of the Mom's were stay at home Mom's and they all looked out for the kids in the neighborhood. We had a certain bedtime and we always had dinner time with the family all sitting and talking about our day. Sadly because of the circumstanses of today most Mom's have to work to make ends meet.
Then there were those of us who grew up in neighborhoods with mostly stay-at-home Moms but ours wasn't & there was constant questioning or teasing about "Why does your Mom work?! Ladies don't work after they get married; only daddies work! What's *wrong* with your family?!" So although I would've love to have had happy care free days, didn't happen; I think that's why I can understand why today's young ones escape into their phones so much; I did & still do a lot of escaping into TV & books & now the internet.
 
Then there were those of us who grew up in neighborhoods with mostly stay-at-home Moms but ours wasn't & there was constant questioning or teasing about "Why does your Mom work?! Ladies don't work after they get married; only daddies work! What's *wrong* with your family?!" So although I would've love to have had happy care free days, didn't happen; I think that's why I can understand why today's young ones escape into their phones so much; I did & still do a lot of escaping into TV & books & now the internet.


Some Mother's had to work because of their situation. My Dad took a second job so my Mom could stay home. My parents also only had 3 kids and by the time I was born my older brother was 13yrs older then me and he had a job working after school. My sister was 2yrs old when I was born,so things weren't as hard for my parents like it was for some others. I wish your days could have been as carefree as mine were. I feel I was very lucky and sadly some others weren't as lucky.
 
Before Internet and cable in the 1960's, I can remember walking and biking places before being of driving age to see and commune with a friend. We'd play and trade 45 rpm records, play cool FM radio stations out of NYC for the latest music parents wouldn't appreciate, and snicker over MAD magazine or the latest cool or uncool happenings at school. You could roam around freely and safely in those days, and schools hadn't been converted into locked fortresses to defend against gun nuts. TV was just in the living room and parental bedroom, so I'd check books out of the library and read to fill in the empty hours...
 
I wish the kids today had the happy care free days that I had.

I was born in the late 50's and I would say that my days weren't happy and care free. The duck and cover drills we did starting in first grade and then later the air raid sirens that used to be tested the last Friday of the month reminded me of the threat of nuclear annihilation that was part of my childhood. Also as I was a younger teen the threat of having to go to a war I didn't believe in because of the draft system also took away from an overall care free nature of my time.

I'm thankful that those risks are greatly reduced, but unfortunately they've been replaced by other threats.
 
We used to gather around the kitchen table or sprawl ourselves out on the living room floor to play old-fashioned board games, and we played regularly, as a family, with friends.

We'd have popcorn night in our house, which was special, and if we were lucky, there was a bottle of Coke in the pantry to go along with.

We went for Sunday afternoon car rides.

Mealtimes meant family, where everyone was at the table, and dovetailing into meals at the table, mom would always put on a special Sunday night supper, even if it wasn't fancy.

People entertained friends and family in their homes over a pot of coffee, a pot of tea, maybe some good old-fashioned home-baking, and always great conversation.

People gardened and grew their own veggies and things, because rather than frittering away their days and time on a cell phone and the internet, they applied their time in more constructive ways.

I remember renting movies or gathering in the living room and watching a show on television (as a family).

Kids could be both seen and heard when I was growing up. We tobogganed, played tag, hide-&-seek, played cowboy-&-Indians, rode our bikes all around, went to the park to play and swim, we played crocket, set up badminton nets and played for hours at a time, we played catch, Frisbee, Lawn Darts, and a whole host of other old-fashioned games. We were always busy doing something or another, unlike today where children are seldom seen or heard.
 
I was born in the late 50's and I would say that my days weren't happy and care free. The duck and cover drills we did starting in first grade and then later the air raid sirens that used to be tested the last Friday of the month reminded me of the threat of nuclear annihilation that was part of my childhood. Also as I was a younger teen the threat of having to go to a war I didn't believe in because of the draft system also took away from an overall care free nature of my time.

I'm thankful that those risks are greatly reduced, but unfortunately they've been replaced by other threats.
There has always been the threat of war, whatever age you lived in. Britain has also had to live with the threat of invasion, which has happened several times and is still happening now.
These days, we have lost our freedom and privacy. We can't even speak our minds. All those science fiction writers of the past have turned out to be right.
 
There has always been the threat of war, whatever age you lived in. Britain has also had to live with the threat of invasion, which has happened several times and is still happening now.
These days, we have lost our freedom and privacy. We can't even speak our minds. All those science fiction writers of the past have turned out to be right.

I agree that war has always been a possibility but until the nuclear age I don't think it's been as immediate and as deadly to civilians as standard war. Both are horrible, but I find nuclear weapons to have more of an immediate existential threat as opposed to war or invasion where one would likely have some warning of an impending invasion and would potentially be able to take actions to help one continue to live.

I see that there is more freedom of speech now than in the past and the ability to associate with members of one's own "tribe" than one had in the past. The oppression of those who were not normal (gays, lesbians, trans, etc...) has been greatly reduced.

I also do agree that there is more information about us available to others but if I want to have privacy I can have it. I just have to know that if I want that privacy it can't be achieved with any of the modern conveniences that we use today.
 
I was born in the late 50's and I would say that my days weren't happy and care free. The duck and cover drills we did starting in first grade and then later the air raid sirens that used to be tested the last Friday of the month reminded me of the threat of nuclear annihilation that was part of my childhood. Also as I was a younger teen the threat of having to go to a war I didn't believe in because of the draft system also took away from an overall care free nature of my time.

I'm thankful that those risks are greatly reduced, but unfortunately they've been replaced by other threats.

I remember when I was in grade school having to sit under our wooden desks to protect us from nuclear bombs. Thinking back what protection was that,none. I had a much older brother He was 13yrs old when I was born and was drafted during the Korean war and how worried I was for his safety. I guess there will always be threats,but I feel so sad for the threats facing the world today especially the children.
 
Then there were those of us who grew up in neighborhoods with mostly stay-at-home Moms but ours wasn't & there was constant questioning or teasing about "Why does your Mom work?! Ladies don't work after they get married; only daddies work! What's *wrong* with your family?!" So although I would've love to have had happy care free days, didn't happen; I think that's why I can understand why today's young ones escape into their phones so much; I did & still do a lot of escaping into TV & books & now the internet.
Yup, my mom and dad worked, I was a latchkey kid before it was popular. But I was not teased, what happened at home stayed at home. Keep your mouth shut or die. Yup.
 
The Internet, IMO, is the best piece of technology that has become commonplace in recent years. The wealth of information on the Net, and the online shopping is great. TV, however, seems to have descended into little more than endless commercials....and shows aimed at a 14 yr. old mentality.
And then, there are cell phones....I hope that today's younger people, especially, wake up and realize that there is a lot more to life than texting and tweeting.
Unfortunately, many people are addicted to their phones. There is going to be a lot more mental health issues in the future. You can't live without talking to people face to face to have a long lasting meaningful relationship. Going to sleep with a phone is not the same as cuddling up with a nice warm gal/guy!
 
So today I have ā€˜spoken’to ā€˜friends’ I have never met and probably never will in Dubai and Ukraine.And haven’t seen any of my neighbours or spoken to anyone in days.That’s progress!
And I’m watching the Marlins at the Braves in my Welsh living room courtesy of satellite TV!Couldn’t have done that thirty years ago!
 
I liked having the computer, faxes, cell phones, etc. for work, but now, I find them to be a distraction at times.

If I really wanted to, I know that I could do without these gadgets.
 
I hate cell phones not because of what they are rather, because people worship them and cannot walk or blink without them. I often wonder what family life is like now. Do the kids come home and run to the bedrooms to go online with their computers and play with their phones? Then come out for dinner then retreat back to their "tech" bedrooms never talking to their parents who are eating with one hand and holding their phones with the other?
 


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