I still dye my roots, and I'm not ashamed of it at all...but is is a hassle. I would grown mine out, but hubby likes my color, and doesn't want me to do it, unless my health deteriorates so much that I can't manage anymore. Honestly, I've been fooling with hair color since I was a teenager, so turning grey really didn't make any difference, no new rituals due to getting older.
I almost always did it at home, as I didn't have extra money to go to the beauty parlor (hair stylist). I remember the painful plastic cap for doing your own blond highlights back in the day. It hurt enough pulling the hair out through those holes, but then removing the cap once the gunk was on your hair was really ouch time, lol.
I worked with a gal that decided to grow out her grey, and for a long time it looked like she was wearing a little silver skullcap. I inquired at a neighborhood hair place about dyeing hair grey, for those who wanted to grow out their hair, and she said that there was no grey coloring available at all, only black, and that would really show the grey. I also have so much grey now, that it wouldn't be just highlights if I grew it out.
I think if I was ready to go grey, I would choose the lightest color that was near my own, and maybe highlight with platinum streaks. Like if the hair is brown, choose the lightest ash brown color, etc. At a salon, they can also remove the color you have, and start from scratch with a very pale color all over. Along with mild highlights, I imagine that would be the best way to go. I hate wearing any hats, so that wouldn't do it for me.
