Growing Old...A Privilege

Dee64

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Growing Old….A Privilege

I have been sitting here pondering what to do this new day given to me…and such a sunny day! as i age, i am thankful for each new decade i get to experience.

Used to dread the thought, as most of us do, of getting older, but after many health experiences past 5 years, im thankful to be able to age.
As well, each new decade brings new experiences, some good, some bad, but still an experience. For example, at age 63, i find i am slowing down somewhat. Could be just from all my recent surgeries, but even so, slowing down. And, i find i tire more easily.
But, regardless, it is so great to just wake up and enjoy all the good things life brings us.
Many folks die way too young, not getting the chance to grow old. Growing old is an experience we are lucky to have, if we get the chance.
Now in my sixties, im finding new things to keep me busy. For example, i volunteer an oldies music list, 50′s n 60′s music, to the music director of a local radio station, for a show broadcast friday nights. It is fun, and gives me something i enjoy doing. As well, i volunteer helping out various charities from time to time. This is sometimes exhausting, but so rewarding.
Yes, my sixties dont seem so bad afterall, even with those health problems bought on by aging. i am looking forward to my 70′s, and the new experiences they will bring. Life is so precious, i am thankful and grateful God has given me the chance to age, i have enjoyed going through the decades of my life so far, and if i get the chance , looking forward to the next decade.
Hubby is now retired, we are enjoying just going off, sitting on a bench in the park, and relaxing. Enjoying all the sounds of nature, and having this time with each other. I do worry of getting dementia, or even having a stroke down the road, but still if we are lucky enough to have the chance to grow old, we are so fortunate.
What is that saying..” Grow old with me, the best is yet to be “…..hope to be able to experience the next decade, and all that the “growing older change” offers, be it good or bad.
So wonderful to wake up , especially on a sunny day! makes all those problems of aging seem minimal, and for some strange reason, a sunny day seems to erase all those problems of aging!
Get out and enjoy life, and each new decade, for there are new experiences just awaiting to be found.
 

Hi Dee, it's so nice to see you again, welcome back! I admire your positive attitude even though you've had some health problems over the last years. I feel the same, and cherish every day and every moment of my life. I've lost two siblings that never lived to experience old age like I have, so I'm thankful to be here in my mid-sixties. I'm happy that you now have the company of your husband to enjoy life, I also like to be outdoors with my hubby and enjoy the sights and sounds of Mother Nature.

Thanks for your positive message. :love_heart:
 
Yes, it is good to grow older especially if you have good health and a sound mind. BUT.. in my 60's I'm finding that my body is starting to let my mind down.
 

I'm in my mid seventies and I wouldn't be dead for quids.
I have been through several years of pain but thanks to some excellent orthopedic surgeons I am now pain free.

Life can be hard sometimes but on the whole it is wonderful - all of it - the smooth and the rough.
I think the secret is to never look backwards with regret.
By all means reminisce but memories of yesterdays should enrich our todays.

Hubby is suffering from mild depression right now and we have been thinking about our shared experiences over the past 55 years and counting our blessings. We cannot do now what we once did but there is still a wonderful world at our disposal, even if just in our own backyard.
 
I feel you. I had open heart surgery at 16 and am so glad to be here and glad to be alive and if I go tomorrow I have had a Good life. I'm 58 so can't ask for much more. I have good genes my mother is 85 and still kickin'. I don't think I'll make it that far but every day is a blessing.:love_heart:
 
I am always wanting to do things around the house and find that this 80 year old body just can’t do them anymore. The mind is willing, but the body says no. It hurts a little to have to hire my handyman to do the jobs I use to do.
 
Great message Dee. I always try to be aware that you can wake up in the morning and decide to be happy and look forward to the day, or wake up and be grumpy and think about, woulda, shoulda, coulda.
 


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