Have You Ever Cheated Or Been Cheated On ??

Have You Ever Cheated Or Been Cheated On ??

  • Yes Yes

  • Yes No

  • No Yes

  • No No

  • Maybe I did and Maybe I didn't

  • Suspect but don't know for sure

  • We didn't call it cheating

  • I'm not telling and I don't want to know

  • It's not cheating if you don't get caught

  • Time heals all wounds

  • Time doesn't heal a darn thing

  • Sexting isn't cheating

  • My answers to this poll are a lie ... well, not true

  • None of your business. Where's my free stuff?


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I married three years after my son was born to a man who I was fairly certain would be a decent father and partner. He was for the most part. He was an agent with FBI forever so he was gone a lot. We had separate rooms after we married (no sex) and although we were married for 30 years, I never considered cheating. He, however, did, and many times. It did not bother me. We were more like good friends and when we broke up it was ok.
 
Monogamy only here! Never married but had some long-term relationships. My partners knew if they cheated, they better like her a lot because she was the next girlfriend so none ever did as far as I know.

I honestly don't know how I'd have handled a husband cheating, especially if there were kids. I have the sort of temper that might have led to gelding...
 
Yes, yes yes. My first wife cheated constantly and even left me while I was down. It didn't work out for her well. She went to the bad boy and he beat her up a lot, I even watched it once (not my problem anymore) and didn't live long after that.

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And some of us are just leaving a spouse/partner who gets ego-boosters from affairs.
And those dumb women are putting so much value on the compliments of those men. Like I wish I could tell the bartender who cheated with my husband a few years ago; just because a man has steak at home doesn't mean he might get drunk enough to want a spam sandwich every now and then. All you are is variety.
 
Oh yes, and it was devastating. I was 18 and a couple of weeks before the wedding, my fiancee called it off.

He wouldn't say why, just that he couldn't go through with it.

It wasn't until he got married on what was to have been OUR wedding day that I found out he had gotten another girl pregnant.

That was bad enough, but two days before he called it off, he had tried to talk me into running off to Kentucky and eloping the next day. A dishonorable move toward both me and the other girl. Their marriage didn't last long.
 

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