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Uh oh... and I jus' went and stomped all over it. My apologies!I have a rich inner fantasy life, my dear.
This thread is one in which my life went a whole weird direction because my IQ is real high compared to what others test at. I don't think IQ tests tell us much other than what they test for. Some do well, and some don't in that test. I can think of many tests that will give very different results. So IMO it is a very narrow test of intelligence. That said...
In 6th grade I was placed voluntarily ( or because my Mother and teacher were encouraging me to do it ) placed in an extended learning class ( ELC ). There were about 25 of us from various elementary schools in the Bay Area. We transferred to a Junior High with 7th and 8th graders. We didn't get A's and B's, we got effort evaluations, and had many experimental learning classes. It was OK, but the social stigma was tough. The school kids taunted us a lot, and all my friends at home became much more distant acting towards me. I felt like a freak.
I don't know who it was for. Might have been some military intelligence program.It didn't help me. I hated school from then on. I barely made it through high school because I didn't go much.
I think these kind of tests are unnecessary and intrusive. Education is so much more than curriculum based planning.
I worked with a guy who wore his “Mensa Member” polo shirt every casual Friday. I asked him once what his IQ was and, of course, he told me. I just smiled and said, “Wow.” (Mine is higher.)I'm sure lots of us have war stories about the social handicap of high intelligence. I learned long ago though that nobody is interested in them. Success is about more than that and intelligence can backfire, leading to hardships or even the opposite outcome.
Brilliant kids I knew in High School & College, so many were burdened by their great intelligence. Ignorance is Bliss.I'm sure lots of us have war stories about the social handicap of high intelligence. I learned long ago though that nobody is interested in them. Success is about more than that and intelligence can backfire, leading to hardships or even the opposite outcome.
You must be my twin.....I'd just as soon cancel about all of my childhood.IQ testing is just a test. What happened to you awful and you must have suffered so much. Many types of intelligence are perhaps not measurable or fit into criteria which after all is decided by those in authority.
On a slight tangent, why is it that children taunt other children who they perceive as not being intelligent? On the other hand those who seem clever can be inordinately respected or bullied for being a 'brainbox'!
Seems we can't win by doing anything other than fitting in and being invisible. I was bullied at school because I was always reading when others were playing. I hated sports and didn't have many friends because I was shy. But kids would sometimes come and knock my book out of my hands just for a laugh. I worked hard but learned that getting good marks in schoolwork sometimes made me a target for those who were lazy. Schooldays are not a happy memory for me.
Mine was no bundle of laughs either.You must be my twin.....I'd just as soon cancel about all of my childhood.
I hear ya. I was into the high school library by 3rd grade, and never stopped.You can get bored too. My entire 8th grade I'd stop into the library and check out a novel every morning. By the end of the school day I was finished and ready to drop it off and get another the next day.
Annoyed my teachers, but when called on I gave an appropriate response. 4.0 average that year. I was just ahead enough and teachers have to devote more energy to those at the other end of the spectrum.
Some tried to help, but they had limited resources. In the 6th grade I spent a lot of time sitting in the hallway working on 7th grade spelling and math books. I suppose zipping through the regular stuff then staring at the ceiling was too disruptive.
That sort of thing only carries you just so far through life though.
she could be just getting comfortable and leaning in cuz she's interested in the conversation.You raise some valid points. However a lot of the sizing up might not be completely conscious at our ages either. Maybe a sort of communication "muscle memory" from experience gets applied... perhaps whether we like it or not.
Considering the medium at hand I'm setting aside body language analysis. A sizable portion of accent and speech patterns are lost for the same reason.
If I'm talking to a woman and she crosses her ankles, pulls her feet under, and leans forward slightly that speaks volumes to me. It doesn't say much about her intelligence, but it sure demonstrates her good taste!![]()
Both.Then again, there is "Genius." Although possibly great for society, a burden or a gift?
she could be just getting comfortable and leaning in cuz she's interested in the conversation.![]()
you're definitely not without charms.Don't laugh, women love me. They just have to think pretty hard before kissing a frog.
you're definitely not without charms.![]()