How does anyone know if a woman's accusations of sexual abuse are true?

My wife and I were getting groceries. I asked an employee if the tattoo on her arm was new.....I did not touch her but she went to her supervisor and claimed I touched her inappropriately. I was devastated by her accusation, and thought it best not to go into the store again for a while. Finally my wife and I returned to the store for groceries and I got some dirty looks from several employees. I spoke to the manager pointing out the one's giving me a hard time, now I don't speak to anyone while I shop for groceries and we buy our groceries through electronic checkout so I don't have to speak to anyone on a register.

It is sad that someone mistook my friendly behavior and turned it into a perverted act of inappropriate touching. It really shook me up to be accused of such degradation.
I don't blame you. That can ruin peoples lives and it's evil that people can do it so casually.
 
Not sure how a grown woman can accuse anyone of sexual abuse.
It isn't sexual "abuse".
It is taking flirting over the top, letting it get out of control.
In some cases it is abuse of power and position.
But not sexual abuse.

I was sexually abused from age 9 to 17.
That was sexual abuse.
I was abandoned by my mother at age 3.
That is child abuse.
 
Just the accusation of any wrong doing is enough to make a lot of people think that a person did something wrong.
FDR saw how popular Huey Long and his policies were getting to be and how Long was criticizing some of FDR’s policies.
FDR had the IRS start an investigation into Long’s finances.
There was really no reason to believe that Long did anything wrong but FDR knew that just by having Long investigated that a lot of people would think that he was crooked. Then FDR took credit for some of Long’s policies and used them like they were his ideas.
People think that where there is smoke that there maybe fire whether there really is any or not.
 
Isn't Porn some kind of Pathetic Mind games.

I always adore the ladies with the miniskirts but the children going Jr. high in see thru short shorts, rings in their lips and navels, Tops that expose most of the lower tummy areas, Stretchy Stuff that leaves not much to imagination, fake or real tattoos, is just too much. What were the parents thinking. 40-year-old teachers dating 18 year old grads?
That's part of the reason for school uniforms in my country.
 
Not sure how a grown woman can accuse anyone of sexual abuse.
It isn't sexual "abuse".
It is taking flirting over the top, letting it get out of control.
In some cases it is abuse of power and position.
But not sexual abuse.
I agree. And if any type of non-consensual sex act takes place, it's rape.

This type of thing happened to my little sister when she was 20, maybe 21. My dad had his own business - auto shop supplies -and she was his delivery driver. One of dad's best customers, who was at least 35, asked dad if he could treat "the cute deliver girl" to dinner sometime, so dad asked Bonnie if she'd like to do that. She said sure, figuring it would increase sales or at least keep him as a good returning customer.

The guy took her to a fairly nice restaurant and they had an enjoyable conversation that wasn't at all concerning. When he drove her back to her car, which was parked at his shop, he invited her in "for a few moments" to see his vintage car collection. The shop was well-lit and had a huge garage-type door, and the guy had been very respectful and stuff, so she accepted without hesitation.

He raped her in the dingy employee bathroom. She didn't tell anyone for like 2 decades, afraid it would hurt dad's business.
 
Not sure how a grown woman can accuse anyone of sexual abuse.
It isn't sexual "abuse".
It is taking flirting over the top, letting it get out of control.
In some cases it is abuse of power and position.
But not sexual abuse.

I was sexually abused from age 9 to 17.
That was sexual abuse.
I was abandoned by my mother at age 3.
That is child abuse.
I'm a little confused..you say your mother abandoned you age 3.. yet on the other thread you say your mother was the boss at home when you were growing up...:unsure:
 
Just the accusation of any wrong doing is enough to make a lot of people think that a person did something wrong.
FDR saw how popular Huey Long and his policies were getting to be and how Long was criticizing some of FDR’s policies.
FDR had the IRS start an investigation into Long’s finances.
There was really no reason to believe that Long did anything wrong but FDR knew that just by having Long investigated that a lot of people would think that he was crooked. Then FDR took credit for some of Long’s policies and used them like they were his ideas.
People think that where there is smoke that there maybe fire whether there really is any or not.
Was that the man known as "The King Fish " in Louisiana, who was shot and killed in the State Capital building ?

link.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Huey_Long
 
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