You know I was just pondering today... not liking what I was realising.. let me fill you in....
I moved into this house as a youngster, 46 years ago...this January
Some of you may remember 2 years ago...my 46 year old female neighbour died suddenly of liver cancer. No-one knew she was ill, and she was the most outgoing friendly person I've ever known...she was very kind.. and when the chit went down with my X.she brought around wine and flowers....
Well today I saw the for sale sign get the Sold sticker on her house, and her husband is now off to pastures new... sold for 3/4 of a million in 3 days.. ..this will make the 3rd owners of that house since it was built in 1960
It started me thinking... now I'm about to get new neighbours. In that house I knew the couple who had lived in it since it was new. They were devoted to each other, were a middle aged couple when I moved here, wherever one went the other went too, .. and when she died.. he followed just a few weeks later..even tho' they were only in their 70's
..and I realised that since I've lived here.. the people next door to that couple , the wife died just age 64... next door to
them the husband died, aged just 58...
..then across the road.. my friend from my teen years mum and dad died, followed each other within 3 weeks, yet they'd seemed relatively fit and healthy in their late 70's early 80's... they were followed into that house by an older couple who moved in, and almost an exact same thing happened.. he died abut 3 years later, and she followed...again late 70's early 80's
The couple who have lived there now for the past 25 years, are now in their 80's, still as active as they can be despite both needing walking aids ... and after she fell down the whole length of the stairs , and had a stroke of which she's never full recovered.. a few doors next to them the husband died leaving a distraught wife.. and like the second couple they had been devoted to each other,... she lives alone now..
Immedately next door to me.. both the lady and man of the house died in their 70's.. leaving 2 spinster daughters now in their 50's and 60's living there...
on the opposite side of me a few doors down .. a woman whose husband a pro sportman died aged only 28 of Leukemia... and she lives alone now...
>>.this all in a group of 12 houses... .... I think I need to get out of this house fast...

