Not enough time. They are so busy. My oldest grandson (31) is working two jobs. The middle grandson used to invite me to brunch a couple of times a year (IHOP was our spot) but now he says he's sworn off restaurant food. I hardly ever see the second oldest...he works a lot too. The latter two are in their early - mid 20's. My two youngest (16 & 14) are so busy with school and church. My granddaughter is obsessed with exceeding her 4.11 GPA in school (she's a sophomore) so studying comes first with her. She takes pre-college courses, is also in the ROTC and is on call for a part time job. I do get to see them every couple of months though and we have so much fun.