.Can we believe anything we want, and then act like it is real? People can do and believe whatever they choose, acting as if it is real, that depends on the depth of one’s belief. Put it another way, to be convinced something is real requires belief.
Belief, and also hope.
The subject of imagination has been touched on. As a child I had a very fertile imagination. Lacking playmates as a toddler and living in a household of my mother, her two unmarried sisters and my grandfather (Dad was in New Guinea with the 2nd AIF), I was rather indulged. I had the company of an elderly cocker spaniel but I am told that I also has a menagerie of imaginary animals that I conjured up from the story books I was read.
Throughout my childhood I was always capable of retreating into an imaginary world that was stimulated by my books and the movies. The crucial point is that I could tell the difference between fantasy and reality. Even as an adult I have used this ability to take time out from uncomfortable realities without becoming seriously delusional.
One example I will share and Seniors can choose to believe me or decide that I am more than a little bit weird. As a child I attended Sunday School at the nearest church to home. It was a Baptist Church with emphasis on the simple stories of the old and new testaments. Naturally, I believed them all to be true but in my teens I began to doubt at the same time as I was falling in love with all things scientific. By 20 years of age I was prepared to call myself an atheist. I believed myself to be some sort of superior being for having thought this out by myself. I knew the truth, or thought I did.
Skipping a few years of life, by the time I was 33 years old I experienced a spiritual experience that shook me to the core. It did not arise from my own imagination yet it was very personal and very challenging. Long story short - I answered the challenge and became, as an adult, a committed Christian. In popular parlance I was born again but I prefer to think that after letting me have my own way for years God came calling and invited me to get with the program.
I had always been phobic about the dentist. My childhood experiences had been rather horrific and every time I sat in the dentists chair I dreaded what was about to happen. It was ridiculous and one day, while I was waiting for the dentist to appear I closed my eyes and prayed. I asked for calmness of mind. With my eyes still closed I saw in my mind's eye a lovely white rose and the details were exquisite. I saw the curl of the petals, the veins running through them and then I noticed a small and fragile spider sitting on the white petals. It was almost translucent with a greenish tinge, very delicate, and it was waving its front legs in the air. This vision held me entranced long enough for my heart rate to slow and by the time the dentist entered the room I was perfectly calm. After the treatment was over (a filling if I remember correctly) I prayed again; a prayer of thanks.
For some time after that I prayed the same prayer every time I had to visit the dentist. I asked to see the while flower again and I did. However, every time the flower was different. It could be a chrysanthemum, a gladiolus, a dahlia. Every time the flower was white and flawless but the little spider never appeared again.
Today I have no fear of the dentist at all and I am glad that faith, hope and imagination were available to me as an adult to help me cope with unpleasant realities. I regard these qualities as wonderful gifts that should not be denied.