StarSong
Awkward is my Superpower
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My apologies for taking your post as being judgy. I know you better and shouldn't have jumped to that conclusion.@StarSong I completely agree. I hope you didn’t misunderstand what I wrote.
In fact I actually said “ abhor the idea that anyone should feel like they have to dress to please others, dress so that they don’t offend other people etc”
I long ago stoped trying to conform to others’ ideas of what is right, appropriate, attractive and the like and I applaud anyone who feels similarly. I do however have some self-consciousness related to wearing what I think looks unattractive on me and that’s where I aspire to a level of insouciance that I don’t have.
If my post sounded judgy, I apologize. It wasn’t meant that way.

I just find it so tedious that adult women's appearances are judged against ridiculously youthful standards - like teenage youthful.