I found this article on fading American traditions

Georgiagranny

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and agree wholeheartedly that there are things we used to do that are just falling by the wayside as we (or our kids and grandkids) get busier and busier. So sad.

One of the things that I miss is sitting on the front porch after dinner and visiting with my neighbors while our kids played dodgeball in the street or visiting with the folks out for a walk. Of course, it was a small town where we all knew each other.

There were plenty of things in the "olden days" that really were better then.

MSN
 

The good ole days were wonderful, and we lived at a slower pace before technology took over.

But I also remember times as a teenager (late 50's) when the 'older generation' was very worried about us, and our future.
We were getting "too wild" with our choice of music (R&R) especially, souped up cars, and the dating scene, and the clothes we wore.


The thing is, the kids today think they are the greatest generation, with everything that is going on in their world .... things we didn't have.
Traditions continue to evolve with time.
 
One of the things that I miss is sitting on the front porch after dinner and visiting with my neighbors while our kids played dodgeball in the street or visiting with the folks out for a walk. Of course, it was a small town where we all knew each other.
Ah yes... I used to enjoy that, too... and I've always been from "small town America"... good memories. Now though... I still live in a small town, but I seriously wouldn't want to spend any "socializing time" with the neighbors I have. :giggle:
 

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and agree wholeheartedly that there are things we used to do that are just falling by the wayside as we (or our kids and grandkids) get busier and busier. So sad.

One of the things that I miss is sitting on the front porch after dinner and visiting with my neighbors while our kids played dodgeball in the street or visiting with the folks out for a walk. Of course, it was a small town where we all knew each other.

There were plenty of things in the "olden days" that really were better then.

MSN
Sounds like an episode of the Andy Griffith Show in Mayberry. :giggle:
 
We always went outside after dinner and played one or two games until the streetlights came on. Often our parents would be out there chatting with neighbors or my dad would go down the street and play bocce ball with the other dads while my mom caught up on her reading.

We lived in the city and not Mayberry.
 
Fireflies…I used to catch fireflies in a jar after dark on summer evenings as a child. The jar would be alive with these pulsing little points of light, fireworks in a jar, a bioluminescent marvel. I’d let them all go when I was done…

Kids today would probably roll their eyes at such stories and interests before returning their gaze to their iPhones, their fingers twitching as they text…
 
Fireflies…I used to catch fireflies in a jar after dark on summer evenings as a child. The jar would be alive with these pulsing little points of light, fireworks in a jar, a bioluminescent marvel. I’d let them all go when I was done…

Kids today would probably roll their eyes at such stories and interests before returning their gaze to their iPhones, their fingers twitching as they text…
We used to catch fireflies at night as a child. Yes, it was fun @Fyrefox ! Also caught butterflies. Always did let them go.
 
and agree wholeheartedly that there are things we used to do that are just falling by the wayside as we (or our kids and grandkids) get busier and busier. So sad.

One of the things that I miss is sitting on the front porch after dinner and visiting with my neighbors while our kids played dodgeball in the street or visiting with the folks out for a walk. Of course, it was a small town where we all knew each other.


There were plenty of things in the "olden days" that really were better then.

MSN
A page right out of my memory book, too. What wonderful days those were!
 
Even here in Oz. we used to always sit on the front lawn on a hot summer night waiting for the Southerly Buster which blew in from the South and cooled everything down. Christmas time was so special as the Christmas Beetles used to fly around and we would catch them at look at their beautiful rainbow wings. They don't seem to come any more.
 
Yeah, times were less needy, even though we were poor

Seems kids were more creative
If you had nothing....you played with nothing

Rag Ball

Before baseball, there was rag ball

Just take a rag
Tie it in knots
You've got a 'ball'

Grab a stick....a broom stick is best
You've got a 'bat'

Put most anything flat out for 'bases'
You've got a 'ball diamond'

Most any back yard will do (rag balls don't go all that far)

Grab some neighborhood kids, you've got teams

Not enough kids?
The game of 'workup' comes into play
To first and back

No kids?
Got a dog?
Hit the rag ball, yer dog will bring it back
......or run off with it

Then the game of chase comes into play

Yeah, back in the day
before plastic balls and bats

There was rag ball

Let a kid use his mind, he'll come up with his own toys

Boredom never existed.....ever

'Play' was something you got to do

...after chores
 
I wish the kids today had the growing-up days like I did. Most Moms were at home and were there for you 24/7. We got wet in the summer under the fire hydrant. We could play outside until the late hours and most of the Moms were outside also . For me, they truly were the good old days.
 
and agree wholeheartedly that there are things we used to do that are just falling by the wayside as we (or our kids and grandkids) get busier and busier. So sad.

One of the things that I miss is sitting on the front porch after dinner and visiting with my neighbors while our kids played dodgeball in the street or visiting with the folks out for a walk. Of course, it was a small town where we all knew each other.

There were plenty of things in the "olden days" that really were better then.

MSN
You are so right! But, it brings out the thankfullness of those days back to mind.
 
The good ole days were wonderful, and we lived at a slower pace before technology took over.

But I also remember times as a teenager (late 50's) when the 'older generation' was very worried about us, and our future.
We were getting "too wild" with our choice of music (R&R) especially, souped up cars, and the dating scene, and the clothes we wore.


The thing is, the kids today think they are the greatest generation, with everything that is going on in their world .... things we didn't have.
Traditions continue to evolve with time.
Back in the 50's we had little league baseball but it was different from now.
On game day, we would meet at the field a hour or so before the game. Only half of us usually showed up, so we would ride around on our bikes, starting with the houses of our best pitchers and try to wake one of them up. Pitchers had to have natural talent - there were no coaches, instructions or parents for that matter. 'Sleepy', or "Sleep" for short, was our best pitcher but hard to wake up. He was big for his age and could throw hard which forced a lot of bad swings. Another pitcher was Davey who threw side-arm which scared the heck out of batters.

Once we got a pitcher up, we rode around until we got a full team and then worked on our route to the ballpark. We all had bikes but never wore a protective helmet. If it was an 'away' game we worked out the best route to take that avoided trains (the major industry), area bullies (we never reported these problems because no one cared), hills, and bad roads (many).

Once at the park we waited for the opposing team. If nobody showed, we won by default and played 'Indian ball' for a while until it got too hot. Sometimes teams were just short a few players so we swapped players around to even it out and then played.

For the games, we had to supply our own ball, bats, gloves, bases, umpires, scorekeepers, etc. We didn't have protective equipment for catchers or batters which we really could have used because the pitchers had no training or coaching and wild pitches were common. Getting hit with a pitch was a 'ball' in the ball/strike column, not a walk, otherwise there wouldn't be any actual baseball. We didn't have uniforms either. If fact, some kids missed games because their sneakers were not useable.
We frequently loaned or borrowed fielders gloves because not everyone had them.

Many a game was called a tie because the ball was hit into the weeds and we couldn't find it. And nobody had another one.
Before the game started, the captains found various things in the trash can or in the weeds to serve as bases and home plate. We also chose an umpire from each team to call 'balls/strikes' for the other team ( half inning). If the 'ump' made a bad call, we just did an 'over' and ignored it. Occassionally there was a quarrel but not as many as you might think. It was usually exciting for everyone when a ball came near the strike zone.

In the 4 years that I played, I never once saw a parent or interested adult. I never even saw an adult drop off a player or pick him up. Also surprisingly, I never saw any player get seriously hurt - maybe a bruise from a wild pitch but that's it.

After the game we went home where we split into our local groups, sat in the shade, trading and reading comic books and drinking Kool-aid (actually consuming a refreshing drink, not discussing dystopias)

I miss those summer days...
Every once in a while in the summer, I make some Kool-Aid from a old package we bought for the grandkids and I sit in the shade on the porch with the best adventure author, and my favorite author, Wilbur Smith.
But the flies and mosquitos!,
Kool-Aid has a chemical taste!,
It's too hot/humid/noisy!
And I so go back inside and flip on the TV.

Seriously, the flies and mosquitos and noise? We never used to have them, did we?
 
In 1970 , Greyhound USA had a summer special ticket. For $99 you could have unlimited travel in the entire country for 3 months. Just the thing for a 22 year old Canadian kid. I took the train from Toronto to Detroit, and bought my ticket. My eventual destination was LA, but I really didn't have a route figured out to get there.

First major stop was Chicago, change bus, heading south towards Oklahoma. I got off in the little town of Miami, OK at about 6 am. Walked up the main street to the Comanche Motel. Out front of the little 12 room motel, an elderly man was about to raise the American flag, and he had a portable record player with a recording of the national anthem on it. I said hello, then stood at attention while he raised the flag and the record player went around.

He asked me if I wanted a room, and I said yes. He squinted at me for a minute, then said those famous words. Yall not from around here, are yah ? Nope, from Canada, going to California on the Greyhound bus. He smiled and told me the room was $12 a night. I paid him with a $20 bill.

I slept until 4 pm, had a shower, and then walked down to the Pizza Hut for supper. The main street in Miami OK was named after a local guy who played for 4 years in the NFL. I guess they were hard up for heroes in that small town.

I walked along until I got to what looked like a bar. I tried the door, but it was locked up tight. I could see people inside, so I knocked on the door. Eventually a man opened the door and asked me "Are you a member " ? I said no, I just wanted a cold beer ( this was in August and it was bloody hot ) . He said I would have to pay a dollar for a membership card. OK. It turned out to be a " bottle club " not a regular bar. No body spoke to me, nobody paid any attention as all. I got a frosty bottle of some local brand of beer I had never heard of before.

At that time I still smoked, so I lit up a Rothman's Special out of a 25 pack. That got the guy next to me to look over and ask me " What kind of thing is that ? Meaning the slider pack, which was very definitely
Not American "., I showed him how it opened and closed.

At that point the bar man came over and stood in front of me. "Are you with the ABC " ? He asked me. I said I had no idea what that was, but I was simply a Canadian headed to California on the bus. He replied that he thought I was a inspector from the State Alcohol Beverage Control agency. He had mistaken my Toronto accent for a Boston one. Once he saw my ticket , he relaxed and went back to the TV set.

Two cold beers later, I headed back to the Comanche, and it's "refrigerated air " coolness. Next stop OK City. JimB.
 


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