The rest of my life does not include deciding how to spend money.
What a terrible waste of time.
There's virtually nothing that
we want, but we chuckle about making 'plans' to give it away......it's all changed now, since his wife died, but as one example among many, about 40 years ago I envisioned taking my best friend and his wife out to the most expensive restaurant in town, ordering the highest priced wine, running up a ginormous tab.
Then...when the bill was presented...saying "Oh, I forgot my wallet, can you get this?"
And
then, when he hummed & aaahd, saying "You cheap bastard, with all the money you've got?"......followed by "Oh geez, I forgot to give you
this".
After all, if we're giving this money away we should get some laughs out of it.
(But mainly, now, it's taking the granddaughters on 'ground level' trips so that they can get some real life experiences.)