I wishThe actress, Joanna Lumley, was delighted when her doctor wrote on her medical notes: "Can still cut her own toe nails."

I wishThe actress, Joanna Lumley, was delighted when her doctor wrote on her medical notes: "Can still cut her own toe nails."
When my mother began to need/want help we were lucky to find a 'cleaning woman' that would come in four hours a week to do just about anything that my mother needed to have done.I know what you mean! I have several things that I need to do, but my arthritis makes it impossible for me. For instance, I'd like to clean out my bottom cabinets in the kitchen and get rid of stuff I don't use anymore, but I can't get down there to do that anymore.
I wouldn't want any live-in servants but I wouldn't mind a gardner/handyman and a house cleaner. I am pretty picky about food so I would probably prefer to do my own cooking.
Funny you mention that Aunt Bea...for 26 years my mom lived with me and then for a couple my mother in law also moved int.When my mother began to need/want help we were lucky to find a 'cleaning woman' that would come in four hours a week to do just about anything that my mother needed to have done.
My mother used to clean all week in preparation for her visit so that when she arrived they could do something that was important to my mother. The woman would take my mother to get her hair done, shopping, do laundry, bake Christmas cookies, go to visit an old friend, and sometimes she would even clean.
Each week it was like a senior playdate that my mother always looked forward to.