If you were in the service, do you consider yourself a "Vet"?

Anyone who has been in a uniform and agreed to give their lives for their country is a veteran in my book, whether they saw combat or not.
I have a very deep respect for any veteran who has served live combat time.
It's horrific and changes you.
 

By time Viet Nam came along I was an old married veteran with a wife, 2 kids and a mortgage.
By the time Vietnam came along I was under training in a Naval Officer Candidate School. After graduation I served on a Carrier that made three cruises to Vietnam, but as a member of the Engineering Dept I can‘t say I ever saw Vietnam.

After three years sea duty, I served for another two years in a Mediterranean Naval Base. Before I was discharged I was told by an officer I relieved that a marine transferred in from Vietnam told him that he had seen a prisoner pushed to his death from a US helicopter.

When discharged I returned to the States as a Reserve Officer. I was exposed to the negative side of the Vietnam War by literature I was not privy to when on active duty. I wrote the SecNav and told him my helicopter story. He replied that it was a Sea Story, a lie and tall tale, whereupon I resigned my Reserve Commission. That resignation has always been the high point of my service. Does that still make me a vet? I suppose so.
 
My man served 7 years and had an honourable discharge but he doesn’t consider himself a vet. He thinks that ‘true vets’ are ones who actually went to war and he didn’t.
I’m still proud of him. There wasn’t a war going on when he was in service.
Even though my husband didn’t serve in a war, I consider him a vet. He started when he was 17 and got out when he was 24. That’s from 1982 to 1989.
 

Technically, I'm a veteran. I served 6 years in the 80s, both in Europe and in the states.

But, it was during peacetime, so, I kind of feel like a bit of fraud when people thank me for my service.

I wore the uniform, and I was prepared to defend my country, but I never saw any action.

My brother, on the other hand, was a Marine, and did three tours in two different deserts. To me, that's a veteran.
 
I served in a civilian capacity for 2 years. It was not war related, but I was in the States doing civil service. I don't consider myself a veteran. I do know that I served my country for 2 years. :)
 
After three years sea duty, I served for another two years in a Mediterranean Naval Base. Before I was discharged I was told by an officer I relieved that a marine transferred in from Vietnam told him that he had seen a prisoner pushed to his death from a US helicopter.
A Vietnam Vet told me in a rare moment that it was not uncommon to take two prisoners up, push one out, and then interrogate the other. He's the only one that ever told me about something like that. I wasn't shocked. I assume this kind of thing has always happened in war.
 
A Vietnam Vet told me in a rare moment that it was not uncommon to take two prisoners up, push one out, and then interrogate the other. He's the only one that ever told me about something like that. I wasn't shocked. I assume this kind of thing has always happened in war.
I have no doubt that is true, but the United States is a signatory to the Geneva Convention which clearly prohibits killing POWs.

Article 13​

“Prisoners of war must at all times be humanely treated. Any unlawful act or omission by the Detaining Power causing death or seriously endangering the health of a prisoner of war in its custody is prohibited, and will be regarded as a serious breach of the present Convention.”
 
I'm an ex service member of 10 years in the Army as a supply sergeant. I leave the VETS for those who actually fought. I was in gravy peace time areas.
 
I was in the U.S. Navy from 1968-72. I was stationed in Chicago, D.C., NYC, and Cuba (Well, before the prison.) I was never in any peril, whatsoever.
When people thank me for my service, I tell them, " Save it for those, who put their lives on the line". It's not false modesty, those guys did give all they could.
If you were in the service, do you consider yourself a "Vet"?
I agree! Just because I worked 22 years as a civilian for the Army and Navy is no different than if I had worked for IBM
 
I have no doubt that is true, but the United States is a signatory to the Geneva Convention which clearly prohibits killing POWs.

Article 13​

“Prisoners of war must at all times be humanely treated. Any unlawful act or omission by the Detaining Power causing death or seriously endangering the health of a prisoner of war in its custody is prohibited, and will be regarded as a serious breach of the present Convention.”
That sounds right, but I am under the impression that those who do the interrogation and torture understand the Geneva Convention as well. And they push the limits. I'm not pointing out what is right and wrong. I was just passing on information.
 
That sounds right, but I am under the impression that those who do the interrogation and torture understand the Geneva Convention as well. And they push the limits. I'm not pointing out what is right and wrong. I was just passing on information.
Deliberately killing POWs is beyond pushing the limits, it’s a clear violation. The motive of the Geneva Convention is not just to prevent our prisoners in enemy hands from being executed. To work the non-killing of prisoners of war has to apply to both sides. When we ignore the rules it’s an invitation to the other side to do the same.
 
Deliberately killing POWs is beyond pushing the limits, it’s a clear violation. The motive of the Geneva Convention is not just to prevent our prisoners in enemy hands from being executed. To work the non-killing of prisoners of war has to apply to both sides. When we ignore the rules it’s an invitation to the other side to do the same.
Yes. I get it.
 
Deliberately killing POWs is beyond pushing the limits, it’s a clear violation. The motive of the Geneva Convention is not just to prevent our prisoners in enemy hands from being executed. To work the non-killing of prisoners of war has to apply to both sides. When we ignore the rules it’s an invitation to the other side to do the same.
Good theory. Didn't always work out. You had to be there.
 
Good theory. Didn't always work out. You had to be there.
The story seems to be, at least one I’ve read, was that a prisoner who was believed to have useful info was third in line. One at a time those in front of him were pushed to a screaming death, and then he was given a choice, talk or join his predecessors. Doesn’t sound like Geneva Convention behavior, or something that the SecNav was willing to own up to.
 
The story seems to be, at least one I’ve read, was that a prisoner who was believed to have useful info was third in line. One at a time those in front of him were pushed to a screaming death, and then he was given a choice, talk or join his predecessors. Doesn’t sound like Geneva Convention behavior, or something that the SecNav was willing to own up to.
You bet. Back then, the military called it plausible deniability. There were times when MACV SOG would take a prisoner up in a chopper along with ROK soldiers. They'd come back without the prisoner, and the high command could say with a straight face that we never would do anything like that. However, that wasn't to say that the ROK soldiers played by those rules. See how that works?
 
I would advise vets to register with the VA. My late hubby and I were often around VA facilities during his over 2 decades of total disability. I would see vets come in for urgent medical help. Without registration, it is difficult for them to give a veteran treatment when the vets can't prove they are veterans. So DD214 or a VA card helps.
 
I was in the U.S. Navy from 1968-72. I was stationed in Chicago, D.C., NYC, and Cuba (Well, before the prison.) I was never in any peril, whatsoever.
As the old saying goes, if you were in the service, you served. Therefore you're a Vet. Just because you were not deployed to a war zone means nothing. You're still a Vet. And I salute every Vet I know or recognize as a Vet, because they served.
 
For me, taking 4 years out of my life does entitle me to veteran benefits. Yet, when somebody thanks me for my "service", I personally feel their thanks belongs to the people, who put their lives in the line. I'm proud of my service record, but nobody shot at me.
Oh stop it, Fuzzy!

My husband (22 years active service, loaded bombs in Thailand during Vietnam) is now part of the honor guard that does military funerals. He hears such modest statements from people who think they might not "deserve" the fancy funerals. He tells them, or their family members, that the honor goes to all the men and women who, by joining up, showed that they were willing to die for their countries. What you were actually asked to do doesn't matter.

Thank you for your service, all of you.
 
I served two terms in the USAF...1960 thru 1968. I was just a glorified mechanic that serviced the electronics on F-105's, and the only time I handled a weapon was in basic training. However, I do carry a small copy of my Honorable Discharge in the wallet, and if I see a "military discount" I whip out the card. I've checked the various government/VA sites, for any benefits that may be out there, and nothing much pops up. I am just glad that I was able to do my small part to serve the nation, and grateful that I didn't have to risk my life doing so.
We get a lot of discounts from my husband being a retired vet. We got 20% off our ferry boat tickets .
 
Oh stop it, Fuzzy!

My husband (22 years active service, loaded bombs in Thailand during Vietnam) is now part of the honor guard that does military funerals. He hears such modest statements from people who think they might not "deserve" the fancy funerals. He tells them, or their family members, that the honor goes to all the men and women who, by joining up, showed that they were willing to die for their countries. What you were actually asked to do doesn't matter.

Thank you for your service, all of you.
Please thank you husband for me!
 
I was in the U.S. Navy from 1968-72. I was stationed in Chicago, D.C., NYC, and Cuba (Well, before the prison.) I was never in any peril, whatsoever.
When people thank me for my service, I tell them, " Save it for those, who put their lives on the line". It's not false modesty, those guys did give all they could.
If you were in the service, do you consider yourself a "Vet"?
I am a Vietnam era veteran. I never left Offutt AFB except for a couple of TDYs. I was in from September 73 to September 79. I did not get shot at. I did however volunteer to go get shot at if that was where I was sent. Where they put you was not under your control. I was in mobility squadron and qualified every year on the M16. I was a terrible shot, and still am. I was very good at electronics however. The important thing is....do you remember where we used to store our fatigue caps when we went inside? Was it a front pocket, or back pocket or what? I simply cannot remember what I was supposed to do with the darn thing..... :)
 
I'm a peace time vet who was in the Army for 3 years and then the Army Reserves for another 2 in the 1980s. But the only veteran benefit I ever applied for was recently, when I applied for and received the Lifetime Liberty Pass for free entrance into all of the New York state parks and historic sites in the NYS park system. Other than that I don't ask for anything else. It is just how I am.
 
I'm a peace time vet who was in the Army for 3 years and then the Army Reserves for another 2 in the 1980s. But the only veteran benefit I ever applied for was recently, when I applied for and received the Lifetime Liberty Pass for free entrance into all of the New York state parks and historic sites in the NYS park system. Other than that I don't ask for anything else. It is just how I am.
I have avoided the VA for lots of reasons, except for one thing -- the VA homeowners loan guarantee. I've done that six times over the past 30+ years and it has been a blessing.
 


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