I've lost my patience with my son-in-laws Mother

Linda said:
Kadee46, I would be so tempted to show up wearing a real short skirt and maybe even no bra just to aggravate that ol hussy. :)
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I should do just that, you can just imagine her she has long grey hair,long dirty fingernails one eye and she always dresses in black. She's about 75 ..Sorry Sassy I'm getting a little of topic..
 

Had I been there on that particular Thanksgiving Day for dinner and heard that remark about her husband, I would have left the table and the house. "Bye-bye, don't call me, I'll call you."
 
Kadee46 said:
I should do just that, you can just imagine her she has long grey hair,long dirty fingernails one eye and she always dresses in black. She's about 75 ..Sorry Sassy I'm getting a little of topic..
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Kadee,you aren't getting off topic. That woman really does remind me of the MIL. She is soo heavy and yet picks on other peoples weight. One day she was complaining about how her knees hurt her. I had to answer,so I said "Maybe if you lost weight your knees would feel better. You should see the look she gave me !
 

Sassycakes, your daughter looks beautiful, no doubt about it.

As far as the MIL is concerned, I find that people who constantly make derogatory comments seem to have low self esteem themselves and be very insecure. She sounds jealous and envious to me --- I would think she would be pitied if she were not so offensive. There's another thing, maybe she has a medical/mental condition that causes her to be so rude and should be checked out by a doctor. Maybe her son needs to look into this.
 
This is the woman I was thinking of from the movie Nebraska, she is the most obnoxious person you just want to stuff a sock in her mouth. You have to see her in full mode in the movie to appreciate her.


Very interesting commentary of the actress on the character and who she sees the character having a commonality with, her alcoholic mother no less.

 
Sassy, you wouldn't be hurting your sil if you told that woman off, avoided her or anything you need to do. SHE is the one hurting your sil, her own son, and he knows it. She deserves a good kick in the pants!
 
Sassycakes said:

Kadee,you aren't getting off topic. That woman really does remind me of the MIL. She is soo heavy and yet picks on other peoples weight. One day she was complaining about how her knees hurt her. I had to answer,so I said "Maybe if you lost weight your knees would feel better. You should see the look she gave me !
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Thanks Sassy ..this woman even told other people I work as a prositute to buy my dance skirts ,which I buy from an upmarket shop called noni b I only buy on special for about $40 each ..I went to solicitors and the police ..but she still slanders people
She is extremely jealous because we were popular at the dance and she did her best to change that
Here is an example of the skirts and tops I buy/wear to the dances this was taken about 6 months ago
 

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Linda said:
Kadee, I would be SO MAD, if I were you! Love your skirt and love seeing pics of my friends on here. That looks like a fun place. I have never learned to dance, wish I could.
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Linda we often have themed nights and that was a British night that's why we were wearing red and white ,we only started dancing at 63 ...now 70 ..
 
I've been in the position where a family member thought they had all the answers, and they thought it was their duty to bring down as many people as their nasty mouth could. I too put up with it for a long time, and then one day I just couldn't stand it anymore, and I burst out laughing at her so hard I was holding my sides. It didn't stop her nastiness, but she left me alone from then on. Today if we find ourselves at the same function I start to grin real big, and she goes in the opposite dirrection.
 
Kadee46 said:
Thanks Sassy ..this woman even told other people I work as a prositute to buy my dance skirts ,which I buy from an upmarket shop called noni b I only buy on special for about $40 each ..I went to solicitors and the police ..but she still slanders people
She is extremely jealous because we were popular at the dance and she did her best to change that
Here is an example of the skirts and tops I buy/wear to the dances this was taken about 6 months ago
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You to make a very lovely couple, nice skirt, I bet it flowed nicely as you danced. :)
 
You know it seems to me there should be an asshole intervention. They do that for addicts & self harmers and lots of people. I think there should be one for assholes. You could collect all the people who she has been harassing and insulting & then invite her over. Have nice tea and cakes and just tell her you've all decided to throw an asshole intervention and let her know how she makes all of you feel with her comments & such.
 
Kadee46 said:
Thanks Sassy ..this woman even told other people I work as a prositute to buy my dance skirts ,which I buy from an upmarket shop called noni b I only buy on special for about $40 each ..I went to solicitors and the police ..but she still slanders people
She is extremely jealous because we were popular at the dance and she did her best to change that
Here is an example of the skirts and tops I buy/wear to the dances this was taken about 6 months ago
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You look very lovely in the skirt and it is very obvious that she is extremely jealous of you.
I wish the Police could have done something even if it was just a fine for defamation of character.
 
The skirt is very nice Kadee, you look great. Amazing how vicious people can get when they're jealous.
 
jujube said:
You have a beautiful daughter, Sassy!
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Thank you jujube. My Daughter is also kind,generous and extremely caring. She is very good to her in-laws. It's a shame they don't appreciate all she does for them.
 

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