FB I "hear" what you're saying but know that the sensitivity goes
so much deeper than being descendent from slaves. It's the history of our families being torn apart, our great, great grandmothers being raped by their masters and those offspring also being treated as unworthy slaves. It's our great, great grandfather's being brutalized and removed so they were not allowed to be father figures. It's about preventing slaves from becoming educated...the basic rights of human beings...to learn to read and write our names and be given the opportunity to excel. And it's about the systematic racism that grew from slavery time, festered and is still evident today, complete with it's negative stereotypes. We've been told we are not as smart, not as worthy as our White counterparts yes, even as this country was being built up on the backs of our ancestors.
Being seen as less was evident from the normal workplaces to the fashion industry. Black women had to deny our natural beauty (think hair and build) and be indoctrinated to White standards of beauty. As Black women we had to straighten our hair to be considered for employment (ie: conform) and weren't featured on the covers of fashion magazines for a very long time. As recently as about 2 years ago, a little Black girl was denied the right to be in her class picture because she wore a special braided style (done up so pretty for the photos). Yet when Bo Derek wore the braids in that movie (whatever it was) the industry made a big deal about how beautiful she looked with that hairdo. African women have been wearing that style for decades.
It's about not seeing people who looked like us on T.V. or movies unless they were portrayed in negative lights (usually as dummies and/or subservients). Imagine just for a minute that things were reversed and most of the people you saw didn't look like you plus you were made to feel
less than. What would that do to your psyche if that's what you were indoctrinated with during most of your formative years? Some Caucasians don't want to believe that there is a
system to racism, but there is. It's evident in the school systems, the prison systems, the economic system and certainly the amount of racial profiling that happens, with many instances ending in unnecessary deaths by police on a much larger scale for Black and brown people. A wound can never heal if it's constantly being picked at, peeled back and messed with so that it continues to fester. So yes, it continues to be a very sensitive issue!
@Rosemarie @Aneeda72 @Gaer