Your comment Capt makes me think of little human babies and how cute they start out and what they turn into.
I used to be a church attendee and was committed to my church, my Lord, my faith, etc. But then one day, something changed and that faith began to change. Now, while I don't believe as I did, I try to keep in mind, the sensibilities of those folks that I know who are still devoted. While I sometimes enjoy digging deep into the old memory bank and discussing Biblical things I make an effort to not offend or denigrate their beliefs, instead choosing to allow them their 'opinions' while I have mine. I try to be considerate. I often feel that it would be nice if others afforded people who've chosen a lifestyle such as mine with the same consideration. My daughter, my own mother often forget I suppose whom they are talking to and I get to hear about their latest beef dinner or the KFC chicken they had last night or how much they love xyz, all of which conjure up the most tragic and horrific images in my mind.......but you know, as I was writing this I was suddenly reminded of a lesson that I realized a few years ago, and that is to never expect anything of anyone, because you're sure to be disappointed.
And like you Cookie, I'm blown away by the vast majority of people who refer to themselves as animal lovers and yet when it comes to the lifetime of suffering that animals receive at the hands of humans, there is no question that their participation in that suffering will continue. My only involvement comes by way of having a cat and a dog who are true carnivores (although the dog can manage with some plant foods) and I am grieved every time I feed them because I can't step away from it entirely. If I hadn't already had the dog prior to 'waking up' and if the cat hadn't reached out to us in the midst of his suffering, I would be entirely free of that cycle of violence to whatever degree is possible in this world.
My personal belief in the afterlife includes (from all of my reading and research on NDE's and physics, etc.) that life carries on and that we do this over and over again, each time making an effort to reach up to a new and grander version of ourselves. I also believe that we have choice as to the 'where' and 'how' of that experience, and based on this issue and how we humans so willingly commit violence and bloodshed against those in our society (global or local), I intend that my 'next time around' will not happen here.