JaniceM
Well-known Member
- Location
- still lost between two shores..
I'll start by saying one of the many things I like and in some cases appreciate about forums is the chance to get input etc. from people who aren't in this area. A couple of years ago, I posted a few 'local oddities,' and it was very helpful to hear from forum members who had the same viewpoint as me: there is something very wrong with this environment, and, straightforwardly, people around here are really messed up.
One example is life and death means nothing to them. They just plain don't care. So that's why I'm bringing this question to this forum.
How long does it take to fully realize that somebody who's always been there for a very long time, isn't there anymore... and how to get through it when you have nobody???
In recent months, I've experienced 2 devastating losses. First, my "furbaby" cat who'd been with me for 12 years died. Now, recently, I learned the only person who'd been a real friend in this city died last month, after being an important part of my life for nearly 14 years.
I don't know how to process all of this, or what to do in general...
One example is life and death means nothing to them. They just plain don't care. So that's why I'm bringing this question to this forum.
How long does it take to fully realize that somebody who's always been there for a very long time, isn't there anymore... and how to get through it when you have nobody???
In recent months, I've experienced 2 devastating losses. First, my "furbaby" cat who'd been with me for 12 years died. Now, recently, I learned the only person who'd been a real friend in this city died last month, after being an important part of my life for nearly 14 years.
I don't know how to process all of this, or what to do in general...