What century are you in, Ralphy????? Who cares who brings home the money, as long as the family has enough to live on? Around my neck of the woods it is very difficult for just one breadwinner to earn enough to support a family anymore, unless the one is a brain surgeon or movie star or something. The way prices are going up, it is more and more taking two just to make ends meet, and most women don't even have the choice anymore whether to work or not.
Back in the '50s, my dad could make enough to decently support a wife and children, but I think those days are long gone most everywhere. I don't even KNOW any stay-at-home moms, unless they stay at home because they work from home.
Yeesh!