Most Painful thing in the world is losing a Loved one.

Sassycakes said:
Thank you Oldman. She got a half a million dollars for his settlement. I was really shocked when she showed up to his wake. She even walked up to me and hugged and kissed me.I didn't say anything rude because I didn't want to hurt the daughter she had with my nephew.
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Yo have to understand, some people just feel that they are entitled. Yes, I know PA law allows spouses to collect up to 50% of equity in a marriage until the date the papers are finally signed, but is that always the ethical or morally correct thing to do? In this case, probably not. No one knows what lies down the road and what expenses may be necessary to be able to receive proper and quality care. It's because of hose reasons that I feel the money should go into escrow for at least ten years and then if not needed it could be released to the ex-spouse.

My wife and I each received very large inheritances from our family's trust funds. Because of that, we decided "before" we got married that we would have a pre-nuptial agreement between us stating that neither of us could touch the other's inheritance. Problem solved.
 

Sorry for your loss. We lost our son Oct 27, 2019, at age 34. There is a Facebook page that helps me, we have all lost an adult child under different circumstances. It is a place that I don't feel alone, you can post anything and others know exactly how you feel. no judging, no saying you need to be over grief etc. In this group people are in all stages of grief. I lost a 54 year old sister in a car accident Nov. 30, 2018, a mom from old age Jan. 22, 2019 and then our son. Our son is the most difficult to accept. I just suggest to be there for for your sister, listen to her no matter how much time goes by. Do not fear of bringing him up because it will make her sad and cry, she is sad and does cries. We as parents of who have lost a child, we just don't want that child forgotten. We have two children, our eldest just lives in heaven, Jeffrey forever 34. If your sister wants I will give you the name of the Facebook page.
 
Very good post, @gamboolgal
Thank you. What you shared even helps a little.
My caring goes to you, as well.
 

Sorry @Sassycakes I only just seen this post as well ,very sorry for your loss

I lost a brother at 14 years old it’s been over 50 years and I still think of him ,wondered what he’d be like now.
Time heals but the love you had for your nephew will never die
 
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