My Dr. Visit and What is Happening

Ruthanne, I don’t know what the answers are for you. I can tell you that my B-I-L had one last year. I think he was 62 at the time and he mentions almost daily how thankful he is for the extra time. He looks at life differently now. Like we all should live it probably, but everyday he wakes up is like this extraordinary gift to him now. Maybe that is something to think about? Just know my prayers are with you...lots of them
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Ruthanne, sad to hear that you're needing a transplant, I agree with you it wouldn't hurt to get an opinion from another specialist to help in your decision. My husband has a friend who is in his late sixties and had a liver transplant several years ago and he's doing very well and happy he had the surgery. He did go through the VA and didn't have to wait long for an organ, I believe his liver issues were due to years of taking prescription pain meds, although he did drink a little bit. He had no other medical conditions to my knowledge.

Hoping another doctor has an alternative for you besides the transplant. You are in my thoughts and sending warm healing wishes to you....hugs. 🌷
 
Ruthanne, sad to hear that you're needing a transplant, I agree with you it wouldn't hurt to get an opinion from another specialist to help in your decision. My husband has a friend who is in his late sixties and had a liver transplant several years ago and he's doing very well and happy he had the surgery. He did go through the VA and didn't have to wait long for an organ, I believe his liver issues were due to years of taking prescription pain meds, although he did drink a little bit. He had no other medical conditions to my knowledge.

Hoping another doctor has an alternative for you besides the transplant. You are in my thoughts and sending warm healing wishes to you....hugs. 🌷
Thankyou. I don't know what else can be done once the liver goes besides a transplant but my thinking is there is nothing else. I am not at the point of having to have another one yet but a person needs to go on that list when it's inevitable that they will need one and their MELD score indicates. The doctor that told me that I need to get on that list is not a liver specialist, though, and has no idea how much time I have till a transplant would be in order. That's why I will go back to my specialist once I can get an appointment. I'm also waiting till I get the vaccine before I go back to the clinic to see her. I had seen the liver specialist (hepatologist) 2 years ago and at that point she gave me some estimate of how much time she thought I had before the liver goes but that could change, too.

I'm glad the man your husband knows is doing so well after a transplant. I, too, have been on many meds. over the years that were bad for the liver (doctors don't tell you that when they prescribe them) and at one time had hep.c which took my liver to the point of fibrosis--then I did the treatment for hep.c and got rid of it. Who knows how hard on my liver that treatment was, too. It was a year of injections and additional capsules every day. I also took voltarin for arthritis for a long time and that is hard on the liver, too. In addition to all that I have taken lots of pills for my mental health in the past 20 years, too. Many of them have potential bad effects on the liver, too.

It would be nice if there was something else to cure the liver besides having to get a transplant. Would be nice if there were a cure for cirrhosis but at this point they don't have one. I do know there are some meds. that help a little to maintain when the liver is extremely bad, though, and I have to look into getting some of them. I need a med. to help with my extremely low platelet count and other things going wrong with my bloodwork. I could also use something for fatigue. That's why I'll see the Hepatologist asap.

Thanks for your reply!
 

Thankyou. I don't know what else can be done once the liver goes besides a transplant but my thinking is there is nothing else. I am not at the point of having to have another one yet but a person needs to go on that list when it's inevitable that they will need one and their MELD score indicates. The doctor that told me that I need to get on that list is not a liver specialist, though, and has no idea how much time I have till a transplant would be in order. That's why I will go back to my specialist once I can get an appointment. I'm also waiting till I get the vaccine before I go back to the clinic to see her. I had seen the liver specialist (hepatologist) 2 years ago and at that point she gave me some estimate of how much time she thought I had before the liver goes but that could change, too.

I'm glad the man your husband knows is doing so well after a transplant. I, too, have been on many meds. over the years that were bad for the liver (doctors don't tell you that when they prescribe them) and at one time had hep.c which took my liver to the point of fibrosis--then I did the treatment for hep.c and got rid of it. Who knows how hard on my liver that treatment was, too. It was a year of injections and additional capsules every day. I also took voltarin for arthritis for a long time and that is hard on the liver, too. In addition to all that I have taken lots of pills for my mental health in the past 20 years, too. Many of them have potential bad effects on the liver, too.

It would be nice if there was something else to cure the liver besides having to get a transplant. Would be nice if there were a cure for cirrhosis but at this point they don't have one. I do know there are some meds. that help a little to maintain when the liver is extremely bad, though, and I have to look into getting some of them. I need a med. to help with my extremely low platelet count and other things going wrong with my bloodwork. I could also use something for fatigue. That's why I'll see the Hepatologist asap.

Thanks for your reply!
Ruthanne, I don't know enough about liver problems to give any serious advice, unfortunately. If I were you, I'd be doing the same and researching anything that may treat your condition without transplant surgery. I am always open to natural alternatives, and I will post anything of value that I come across here that may be useful to you. Take care, and I hope you get some relief in the meantime from your Hematologist. Hugs my friend, I will be thinking of you. 🧡
 
So very sorry to hear this Ruthanne. So many things to consider before making a decision. I understand your concern about your pets . Have you made arrangements for someone to care for them even while you are in the hospital convalescing should you take that route? At least that would be one problem out of the way.
I have no answers for you except to keep on researching and as SeaBreeze mentioned be open to all alternatives.
My thoughts are with you as you decide which path to take and may you find peace with your final decision.
 
This is something that no person should have to go through along.
But...
Sometimes there isn't a choice.
I'm glad you have your fur family.......they will calm you, be by your side, and love you till there's no end.
Wish you so much support for the thinking and decisions you may have to make.
And, please remember, we're all here for any support you're in need for.
Take care.......please keep with updates when you're able.
You will feel GOD and ANGELS helping you.
 
(((Ruth)))
I just read this thread. I'm so sorry you're having serious health problems. I wish I lived near you to help you. (It would be kind of 'the blind leading the blind' but we'd laugh over that). You're a fine person, and you're fun to be with. All the best, my friend.
 
So very sorry to hear this Ruthanne. So many things to consider before making a decision. I understand your concern about your pets . Have you made arrangements for someone to care for them even while you are in the hospital convalescing should you take that route? At least that would be one problem out of the way.
I have no answers for you except to keep on researching and as SeaBreeze mentioned be open to all alternatives.
My thoughts are with you as you decide which path to take and may you find peace with your final decision.

This is something that no person should have to go through along.
But...
Sometimes there isn't a choice.
I'm glad you have your fur family.......they will calm you, be by your side, and love you till there's no end.
Wish you so much support for the thinking and decisions you may have to make.
And, please remember, we're all here for any support you're in need for.
Take care.......please keep with updates when you're able.
You will feel GOD and ANGELS helping you.

Here for you Ruthanne, and will keep you in my prayers no matter what you decide.

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(((Ruth)))
I just read this thread. I'm so sorry you're having serious health problems. I wish I lived near you to help you. (It would be kind of 'the blind leading the blind' but we'd laugh over that). You're a fine person, and you're fun to be with. All the best, my friend.
Thank you all so very much for being here and caring--it means a lot to me and I am overwhelmed (in a Good way!) with feelings right now. There is time yet before any decisions need to be made. I appreciate all the input and love! Sorry I haven't addressed all of your messages individually but know that I really appreciate all of your efforts.

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Ruthanne, I don’t know what the answers are for you. I can tell you that my B-I-L had one last year. I think he was 62 at the time and he mentions almost daily how thankful he is for the extra time. He looks at life differently now. Like we all should live it probably, but everyday he wakes up is like this extraordinary gift to him now. Maybe that is something to think about? Just know my prayers are with you...lots of them
❤️
Glad he's doing well! Thank you--I am thinking. 🤗
 
This is something that no person should have to go through along.
But...
Sometimes there isn't a choice.
I'm glad you have your fur family.......they will calm you, be by your side, and love you till there's no end.
Wish you so much support for the thinking and decisions you may have to make.
And, please remember, we're all here for any support you're in need for.
Take care.......please keep with updates when you're able.
You will feel GOD and ANGELS helping you.
Yes, I agree no one should have to go through this alone but everyone here has made me feel I'm not going through it alone now. I had been angry at one of my siblings for not being here for me anymore but things change in life and that's just life and how it goes. I definitely will keep up with updates.
 
(((Ruth)))
I just read this thread. I'm so sorry you're having serious health problems. I wish I lived near you to help you. (It would be kind of 'the blind leading the blind' but we'd laugh over that). You're a fine person, and you're fun to be with. All the best, my friend.
I wish you lived near, too, but the computer brings us a bit closer. Yes, we would laugh...I don't even know what I'm doing yet as everything is new to me now. Thanks!
 
So very sorry to hear this Ruthanne. So many things to consider before making a decision. I understand your concern about your pets . Have you made arrangements for someone to care for them even while you are in the hospital convalescing should you take that route? At least that would be one problem out of the way.
I have no answers for you except to keep on researching and as SeaBreeze mentioned be open to all alternatives.
My thoughts are with you as you decide which path to take and may you find peace with your final decision.
Yes, many things to consider...I believe the managers here would help me if I get surgery--they are special helpful people. Well, at least they would feed and walk the dog and feed the bird. I am open to alternatives but I know quite a lot about this after learning a lot from others online who have been there. I do hope to try to keep my liver maintaining for as long as possible but no one really knows how long that lasts and then there is failure which leads to a possible transplant. Thinking about a transplant is very new to me--I have to see the specialists and get more information from them yet which will be in the near future. Thanks Ruth for being here!
 
Ruthanne, I don't know enough about liver problems to give any serious advice, unfortunately. If I were you, I'd be doing the same and researching anything that may treat your condition without transplant surgery. I am always open to natural alternatives, and I will post anything of value that I come across here that may be useful to you. Take care, and I hope you get some relief in the meantime from your Hematologist. Hugs my friend, I will be thinking of you. 🧡
I appreciate that. I'm going to see a Hepatologist which means liver specialist. I certainly am going to see what else I can do for a treatment for this condition. Thank you!
 
I appreciate that. I'm going to see a Hepatologist which means liver specialist. I certainly am going to see what else I can do for a treatment for this condition. Thank you!
Thank you for correcting me Ruthanne for having the name of the specialist incorrect. I hope you're successful in finding an alternative treatment that is not so extreme. Thinking of you.
 

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