My Roller Coaster Ride Of A Life

Signe The Survivor

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Hello my name is Signe. I believe everyone lives a life full of peaks and valleys. Somewhat like a roller coaster ride. My life has been no different than just that. I started my life in 1953 just like anyone else. That life quickly change as my dad who worked as a police officer lost his life on the job less then a week after I was born. My mom however spent the remainder of her life telling me what a great man he was. I never met my dad, but because of my mom I feel I have great memories of him.

Growing up I added a lot of turbulence to my ride on my own. Through it all though my mom was there to help me. I did make it to college and got my teaching degree. I eventually met a man who I thought was the love of my life and we married. Well we anted a family and we tried and tried and nothing.

I went to the doctors and was told I was infertile. Well a big dip in my coaster ride was about to happen as my husband became distant with me and I found out he was cheating on me. We separated and eventually divorced. This was the lowest point in my life at this point. I still wanted a family so I started looking into adopting. I eventually adopted a boy and that became the biggest highlight of my life.

Shortly after that though would become the biggest fight of my life. I was taking a shower and noticed a lump on breast and went to the doctors and it was confirmed I had Breast Cancer. I went through all the treatments and eventually overcame it. I went back to work and life seemed fine and my ride seem smooth until one April day in 1999. I was working as a teacher in Columbine High School on April 20th, 1999 when two students started shooting. 15 people were killed and 24 injured. This is the worst day I ever experienced in my life. After that day my teaching career was never quite the same.

Many years passed since then and I retired from teaching. Recently I started experiencing losing weight, sweating, excessive fatigue so I went to the doctor. My lymph nodes were swollen and I had Non- Hodgkin's Lymphoma. I started treatments once again and once again just recently kicked that. I am now just enjoying retirement , relaxing, drinking Wine, and enjoying my life.
 

Wow, what an understatement the title is! I'm glad you beat those diseases. My struggles were tame compared to yours. From now on, I hope you receive nothing but happiness in your life!
Thank You very much. I feel I have kicked it twice and if it attempts to return it knows I am quite the fighter so it is in for a fight.
 

WoW....what an introduction...and what a survivor.....go Signe..(y)👏

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You are an inspiration and we are fortunate to have you aboard. I so well remember the Columbine incident and it was ever so tragic. You definitely are a survivor.View attachment 207401
Thank You so much. Having Cancer was actually something I felt I had control over as I beat that twice. The Columbine incident as I sat crouched on the floor of my classroom huddled with a few students during what seemed like a never ending incident, I felt like I had zero control of anything. Definitely the worst day of my life and I doubt anything will ever top that unless my son God forbid goes before me.

From one survivor to another Welcome :)
Than you know exactly how that feels. Kicking something that feels like it once had a hold of you and you said NO. I did it twice and will if I have to do it again.
 
You are definitely a fighter and survivor, Signe. My older sister's story is similar to yours (cancer, twice). Columbine should never be forgotten.

Welcome, from Toronto :)
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Thank You so much. I recall when I first heard the diagnosis of Breast Cancer and I was scared. The treatments were not the greatest for sure, but the one thing I do remember is getting strength when I most needed it from the Nurses and Doctors I had. The 2nd time around with Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma was more a piece of cake.

I do know at least around these parts Columbine is not forgotten.

i want to first welcome you...
and i will be praying for your strength and courage everytime i see your lovely face
Thank You so much. That is so very kind of you.
 
I know exactly where I was when I heard. I just left from visiting my son in Cambridge MA and was going over the Massachusetts Ave bridge to go home; got stuck in traffic on the bridge when the news came on. So shocking. Now it's almost common.
Sadly it is way to common. That day changed my teaching perspective for the remainder of my career. I didn't change the way I taught the students at all, but it made me a lot more aware of the students needs and my surroundings.

@Signe The Survivor Hello and welcome to senior forums, from Pennsylvania. We are indeed fortunate to have you aboard! I hope you come to like it here and feel at home. You will find all kinds of people here, Just as you would in the real World. You will find most to be friendly and helpful. I wish you well in your Retirement.
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Thank you very much. I am enjoying my retirement and my time to relax.
 
Welcome @Signe The Survivor ! That is an incredible story, thank you for it. I have nothing to compare...

Here's hoping you have many more stories to tell, hopefully happier ones. Tell us more about your son.

Looking forward to seeing more of you!
Thank You, well like I said I believe each person is riding a roller coaster through life. I have had enough ups and downs so it is time for smooth sailing the rest of the way. :) As for my son I adopted him when he was 5 years old and now he is 28 years old and a very successful Biomed Engineer. I feel I took a lot of what my mom taught me while I was growing up even though I rebelled some of the time and used those techniques she used on me. I think for a Single Mom I did a decent job.
 
Hello my name is Signe. I believe everyone lives a life full of peaks and valleys. Somewhat like a roller coaster ride. My life has been no different than just that. I started my life in 1953 just like anyone else. That life quickly change as my dad who worked as a police officer lost his life on the job less then a week after I was born. My mom however spent the remainder of her life telling me what a great man he was. I never met my dad, but because of my mom I feel I have great memories of him. Growing up I added a lot of turbulence to my ride on my own. Through it all though my mom was there to help me. I did make it to college and got my teaching degree. I eventually met a man who I thought was the love of my life and we married. Well we anted a family and we tried and tried and nothing. I went to the doctors and was told I was infertile. Well a big dip in my coaster ride was about to happen as my husband became distant with me and I found out he was cheating on me. We separated and eventually divorced. This was the lowest point in my life at this point. I still wanted a family so I started looking into adopting. I eventually adopted a boy and that became the biggest highlight of my life. Shortly after that though would become the biggest fight of my life. I was taking a shower and noticed a lump on breast and went to the doctors and it was confirmed I had Breast Cancer. I went through all the treatments and eventually overcame it. I went back to work and life seemed fine and my ride seem smooth until one April day in 1999. I was working as a teacher in Columbine High School on April 20th, 1999 when two students started shooting. 15 people were killed and 24 injured. This is the worst day I ever experienced in my life. After that day my teaching career was never quite the same. Many years passed since then and I retired from teaching. Recently I started experiencing losing weight, sweating, excessive fatigue so I went to the doctor. My lymph nodes were swollen and I had Non- Hodgkin's Lymphoma. I started treatments once again and once again just recently kicked that. I am now just enjoying retirement , relaxing, drinking Wine, and enjoying my life.
Such an articulate summary of a life, hats off to you, you have more courage in your big toe, than I have in my whole body. Welcome from Sydney.

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Such an articulate summary of a life, hats off to you, you have more courage in your big toe, than I have in my whole body. Welcome from Sydney.

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Thank you so much. The words I wrote do seem to express a lot of courage, but I can tell you there was a lot of times I was scared out of my mind. I also think the photo of Sydney is beautiful. I would love to visit one day.
 
Thank You so much. Having Cancer was actually something I felt I had control over as I beat that twice. The Columbine incident as I sat crouched on the floor of my classroom huddled with a few students during what seemed like a never ending incident, I felt like I had zero control of anything. Definitely the worst day of my life and I doubt anything will ever top that unless my son God forbid goes before me.


Than you know exactly how that feels. Kicking something that feels like it once had a hold of you and you said NO. I did it twice and will if I have to do it again.
I cannot imagine what it would have been like with those two boys stalking the halls and just shooting at will. Apparently, there had been an incident prior to this at another school in Colorado, but it did not get the coverage Columbine did. What a horror and still it continues today. I am a nurse and saw my share of gun wounds come into the OR where I worked and it isn't pleasant.
 


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