Right, and if they don’t run their course, at least she’ll still have access to her son.
I thought older women with younger men is some sort of revenge play for what men having been doing to women for years. How old are the kids? If they are not very young, he will have the kids out of the house by his mid 30’s. That’s not bad.
Very true. Alienating her son is a huge mistake. I can tell you stories of parents who have driven their kids away and it’s been a decade or more since they had any contact with them.
We also could use some laws to protect young women from their own biology. Why they pick some of the men they do is beyond me. Perhaps the ’bad boy’ allure is really true.
A school friend of mine, a lady, took up a post in The US, she worked for an international company and, being single although in her mid-thirties, the company invited her to consider the move, she did. She worked in medical management. Whilst into her work she met a widower, they seemed poles apart, he was a surgeon and Jewish, she was a clerical manager and Roman Catholic. He was twenty years older than her, yet they just clicked. How do I know, we stayed with them at their home in Nashville most times that we went to the US. They were such soulmates that when the husband passed away about three years ago, his widow only lived on for about twelve months, so bereaved was she. How we miss them both.
Great to hear you have a solid head on your shoulders though.It could be backlash.
When my youngest son was around 19 he hooked up with a woman that was my age about 39-40, and made me ill but I said nothing because the main thing they had in common was drugs, he supplied her, and she was pretty. My husband was having fits but my worries were more about him drugging and I knew that he would follow her like a puppy and I wanted to stay in touch with him. They were together for several years. She had kids, a daughter that is my son's age and a boy that was about 13-14.
He finally stopped drugs and they split up. He came back home, and she came over once, he told us to say he was not there so we did, she sat in her car in my yard till I finally went out and tried to tell her to leave but she had to smart off something about him and I slapped the h_ll out of her, then somehow she got a hold of my arm and bit me. We called the law and she got out of there pretty fast( she was spaced out on something and had a bottle of Vodka. Those were some crazy years.
Personally, I could not figure out how she could be with someone so young, and how he could be with someone his mom's age.
Years later when I got a divorce both of my son's friends hit on me every time I turned around but I was not interested. I liked men my age or older
