They will actually continue to live separately until she finishes her childcare courses. They thought she'd be finished in December, but that isn't the case. She is going for certification that she'll need to open her own daycare center. They intend to buy a house here in Jersey. She insists that he doesn't move down there because he would take a significant cut in pay even though he'd be transferring within the same company. I appreciate her for that. Once he realized the pay difference, although he'd talked about moving south for years (before meeting her), he agrees that despite the higher cost of living, they need to stay up here.It’s understandable that she can experience her grief now. It’s too difficult to watch your family in pain.
Will the newlyweds be living in your hometown or moving to her area? I can’t remember if you told us.