Every generation will have something that offends the old folks and will relish engaging in it. My parents didn't approve of my tight jeans, bared midriff and bangs down to my heavily-mascaraed eyes. Worse than that, I went out and had my ears pierced...horrors! My grandmother sniffed that only gypsies and Catholics had pierced ears and she was absolutely sure I hadn't been raised to be EITHER one of *those*. I turned out OK.
I let my daughter engage in pretty much any fad that passed by, as long as the fad stayed within my "decency" standards. Multi-colored hair (temporary spray-on colors), neon clothes, legwarmers, wearing 10 watches on each wrist (they didn't have to work, just be a watch), Michael Jackson hats, tons of rhinestone jewelry, black lace Madonna gloves and three or four crucifixes around the neck were only a few of the hot-hot-hot fads. As long as she dressed respectfully for school, church, weddings, funerals, etc., I was ok with her looking like a circus clown for a party on Friday night (heck, 90% of the kids there were going to look as bad or worse than her). A lot of her friends spend a fortune on the stuff at the mall; we haunted flea markets and garage sales and found all the accoutrements for a song. One fad was black rubber thing bangle bracelets: you had to have at least 10 on each arm or you were hopelessly out of it. They sold for $2 each at the mall. We went to the flea market and bought black air conditioning gaskets at 20 for a dollar. As far as I could tell, they were identical.
Giving in on the "little" things bought me leverage on the "big" things, like when she wanted to shave a stripe in the side of her head. I said NOT IN THIS LIFETIME! and the usual "you never let me do anything!" started up. I just gave her *the look* and she knew she didn't have a leg (wearing a leg warmer, of course) to stand on. She turned out OK....two masters degrees and a six-figure income (well, I had a SEVEN-figure income, but you had to count the two figures on the right side of the decimal point....LOL)
When I see what the kids are wearing today, I just have to sigh and say "this too shall pass" because I KNOW, in the vast majority of cases, "this too shall pass". It's been "passing" for generations and it will continue to "pass". I can just hear the cavewoman saying to her teen-age daughter, "YOU ARE NOT LEAVING THIS CAVE UNTIL YOU PULL THAT TIGER SKIN UP, YOUNG LADY! "