Duster
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- Location
- Deep South, US
I've been getting calls everyday from someone who hangs up after hearing me say, "Hello?". At first I thought it was a blocked telemarketer who got the phone to ring anyway. The caller I.D. usually doesn't know who's calling, just a local number. One day I looked at the I.D. before the caller hung up and it said the name of an old boyfriend of mine. This was someone I dated as a 16 year old and broke up with him for dating a friend of mine, when we were supposed to be exclusive.
Anyway I found out that he was stalking me when I was going on dates with other guys. He once worked at a company where my husband worked. My husband was the old boyfriend's boss. I haven't seen this person in about 40 years.
This behavior kinda freaks me out. If he wants to talk to, why not just speak? I don't have any idea if he knows about my illness or not. Rumors spread in small towns. I haven't mentioned it to my husband. He has enough on his mind. Do you think I should tell my husband about this creepy behavior?
I don't think the ex is a danger to me, but have heard that he was a drug addict a few years ago. Way back when, he called me up and tried to talk me out of marrying my husband. This was after the engagement was announced in the local paper. Right after we married, the ex married a girl who looked very much like me. This was platonic puppy love at the most between myself and this guy. At 16 & 17 nobody was making long range plans.
The whole thing strikes me as strange. I need your collective wisdom. Should I block his number if it shows up again? He could find out where I live, but I stay home most of the time and never go anywhere without my husband. I'm not supposed to drive for the next few months. I don't need this, considering the complications my life has taken on. Please tell me what you would do in this situation?
Anyway I found out that he was stalking me when I was going on dates with other guys. He once worked at a company where my husband worked. My husband was the old boyfriend's boss. I haven't seen this person in about 40 years.
This behavior kinda freaks me out. If he wants to talk to, why not just speak? I don't have any idea if he knows about my illness or not. Rumors spread in small towns. I haven't mentioned it to my husband. He has enough on his mind. Do you think I should tell my husband about this creepy behavior?
I don't think the ex is a danger to me, but have heard that he was a drug addict a few years ago. Way back when, he called me up and tried to talk me out of marrying my husband. This was after the engagement was announced in the local paper. Right after we married, the ex married a girl who looked very much like me. This was platonic puppy love at the most between myself and this guy. At 16 & 17 nobody was making long range plans.
The whole thing strikes me as strange. I need your collective wisdom. Should I block his number if it shows up again? He could find out where I live, but I stay home most of the time and never go anywhere without my husband. I'm not supposed to drive for the next few months. I don't need this, considering the complications my life has taken on. Please tell me what you would do in this situation?