Old Flame Calling?

I wouldn't block the number... He could just use a different phone, besides this way there is a record of the continued harassment.
I would answer the next call with "Hey (Ralph)... Is see your still an asshole" and hang up....
 

What you can do is Google his name. There are services that for a modest fee will run a background check on him. The report will have his address, convictions, etc.
Better yet, go to the police department and have them run his name through NCIC (National Crime Information Center), which is a database that stores a lot of information. If he's been in trouble with the law, it's in there.
 
Years ago I was bothered by a stalker... periodically for several years. Only two phone calls, but his modus operandi was block circling and "coincidentally" showing up in stores where I was shopping. I made a few police reports. An officer reviewed my documentation, then went to his home and had a carefully worded talk with him.
 
I would inform the police. 40 years ago? That was probably the last time that guy was sober/lucid or his entire life just stank. They say people's maturation and progress stop at that age in which they start drinking and drugging heavily. And that makes this guy even more dangerous. I've seen lifetime alkies and addicts behavior go extreme in their gray hair days. One would figure it's the opposite but it's not.
 
Reading this thread kind of reminds me of when I was in high school and had a crush on one of our basketball cheerleaders. During my senior year, I finally asked her for a date and I thought we had a fairly good time. She seemed to enjoy herself and everything did go smoothly. This girl had it all.

After high school, she called me just before I was leaving for college. She asked me why I never asked for another date and I told her because she didn't really show any interest during the first date. She kind of laughed and told me that she was interested, but didn't think my parents would accept her because she was lower middle class. I immediately told her that my parents never judged anyone by their wealth or social standing.

I was leaving for college in a few weeks, but we dated once more and this time, I took her to my home to meet my mom and dad. My dad told me that she was a keeper. He really liked her. But, you know how it is when you aren't in the picture for awhile. People do tend to forget about you. I think that's what happened to us. We kind of went our separate ways.
 


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