One Year Ago Today We Lost My DIL and My Heart Broke

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OneEyedDiva

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One year ago today, my heart was broken into a million pieces when I learned that my precious, beloved Daughter-In-Love Tonya had passed unexpectedly. I (we) miss her SO much. Not a day goes by when I don't think of her several times throughout the day. I'm not alone in this grief...of course, my son still grieves, as do her children, step children, her expansive family, her friends, colleagues and students. We will love her eternally. May Allah be pleased with her. Continue Resting in Jannah (Paradise).
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One year ago today, my heart was broken into a million pieces when I learned that my precious, beloved Daughter-In-Love had passed unexpectedly. Tonya, I (we) miss her SO much. Not a day goes by when I don't think of her several times throughout the day. I'm not alone in this grief...of course, my son still grieves, as does her expansive family, her friends and her students. We will love her eternally. May Allah be pleased with her. Continue Resting in Jannah (Paradise).
😒
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@Pecos @Nathan
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OneEyedDiva said:
One year ago today, my heart was broken into a million pieces when I learned that my precious, beloved Daughter-In-Love had passed unexpectedly. Tonya, I (we) miss her SO much. Not a day goes by when I don't think of her several times throughout the day. I'm not alone in this grief...of course, my son still grieves, as do her children, step children, her expansive family, her friends and students. We will love her eternally. May Allah be pleased with her. Continue Resting in Jannah (Paradise).
😒
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@Pecos @Nathan
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MDS, my heart goes out to you and your family.
 
Dear Diva, my heart breaks for you and your family. Your darling Tonya isn't here physically, but her spirit lives within youβ€”in your heart, your mind, and your very soul. She is eternally with you.❀️
 
Our lives here on earth change with the leaving of each loved one...we are never the same as we were before and tend to think of time differently, like, oh, that was 1990, my ....was still here. We remember in that fashion from then on. Grief comes and goes in waves, like the ocean of time.
 
Thank each of you so much for your insightful comments, messages of condolence and prayers❣️ This thank you further honors Tonya's memory; she loved purple and butterflies.
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@feywon "And if i remember correctly Tonya was not the only beloved in your family who died last year, that can make the sense of loss worse. Keeping you all in my prayers." Yes, we also lost Tonya's twin a few weeks after she passed. I loved her too...she called me the nickname Tonya and my grandson's called me. My heart still breaks for that family...not only Tonya's nieces and nephews to have lost their beloved aunt then their mother...but for my two oldest grandsons, who were just as hurt. That is an exceptionally close knit family. I also lost my first cousin.

@bowmore and @Lewkat My condolences to both of you on the losses of your DILs. :cry:

@Jules & @Remy Thank you. Not only was she beautiful on the outside...she was beautiful on the inside. She was so kind, caring and generous. She was a wonderful step mother to my son's other children and always treated them like they were her own. Needless to say they were devastated too when we lost her.
 

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