Uptosnuff
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- Great Plains, USA
I can see a couple of different sides to this argument. I'll say straight off I do not have grandkids. I have a daughter, but no grands.
I worked with an older guy who did have grandkids and his wife ran a daycare with about 5 kids. One of those kids was her grandchild and yes, she did charge for that grandchild. I see nothing wrong with that. She was providing a day care service for that child day in and day out so the daughter could work. I think it is totally between a grandparent and adult child to determine the details for babysitting services. If that includes payment, so be it. Especially if it is a 40 hour a week job.
My mom had six kids. She told my older siblings she wasn't going to be a free babysitting service for everyone. They got babysitters for their kids when they were little. Along came my daughter and my mom just couldn't get enough of her. Well, that made for a huge rift in the family and my siblings were furious. Looking back, I don't blame them for being upset. I'm not sure what the point of my story is here except that if you are going to lay down the law, you have to lay it down for everyone with no exceptions.
If I had grandchildren, I can't imaging charging to babysit them. I wouldn't, however, babysit full time.
I worked with an older guy who did have grandkids and his wife ran a daycare with about 5 kids. One of those kids was her grandchild and yes, she did charge for that grandchild. I see nothing wrong with that. She was providing a day care service for that child day in and day out so the daughter could work. I think it is totally between a grandparent and adult child to determine the details for babysitting services. If that includes payment, so be it. Especially if it is a 40 hour a week job.
My mom had six kids. She told my older siblings she wasn't going to be a free babysitting service for everyone. They got babysitters for their kids when they were little. Along came my daughter and my mom just couldn't get enough of her. Well, that made for a huge rift in the family and my siblings were furious. Looking back, I don't blame them for being upset. I'm not sure what the point of my story is here except that if you are going to lay down the law, you have to lay it down for everyone with no exceptions.
If I had grandchildren, I can't imaging charging to babysit them. I wouldn't, however, babysit full time.