Please help me get in a good mood..😗

Ruthanne said:
Thank you so much for your message of compassion. I'm so sorry you lost your boy. They leave a big paw print on our 💕 hearts don't they. I hope you are doing well and know he loved you and always wanted you to be happy like all doggies do.🤗. I know the pain of it well
I have lost many animals and birdies. I think of them and smile at the memories.

Peace and love to you ❤️
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Thank you my friend. ☮️
 
A big, warm, peace infused, hug to you my friend.

50 years ago, or thereabouts, I read a message in a book that still helps me today. I can't handle this situation for another week. The comforter asks, "can you handle this difficult situation for another day?" No, I cannot handle this burden for another day. The comforter asks, "can you handle this burden for another hour?" No, I cannot handle this pain for even an hour. The comforter asks, "Can you handle this pain for just another minute?" Yes, I can handle this life for another minute. The comforter says, "That is all that was ever expected. Live life for the moment and don't look for tomorrow's problems."

I made myself this little one inch picture frame to look through when looking at the big picture is too much to handle. It's a good reminder for me.
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Gardenlover said:
A big, warm, peace infused, hug to you my friend.

50 years ago, or thereabouts, I read a message in a book that still helps me today. I can't handle this situation for another week. The comforter asks, "can you handle this difficult situation for another day?" No, I cannot handle this burden for another day. The comforter asks, "can you handle this burden for another hour?" No, I cannot handle this pain for even an hour. The comforter asks, "Can you handle this pain for just another minute?" Yes, I can handle this life for another minute. The comforter says, "That is all that was ever expected. Live life for the moment and don't look for tomorrow's problems."

I made myself this little one inch picture frame to look through when looking at the big picture is too much to handle. It's a good reminder for me.
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Thank you and one moment at a time does it 💕
 
Pinky said:
I'm sending you a hundred hugs, Ruthanne. Sorry you are feeling so low. I can only imagine the pain of your loss. Sisters are so very special. 🤗
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Thank you Pinky. I appreciate your messages and all the likes from you.

It was the hardest time I have ever gone through when I got the call she had died. She was such a sweet, loving, accepting person. I miss her so much 🥺❣️. I always think I wasn't as good enough sister for her to have done that but she had problems and I wish she had called. She didn't call anyone.

Thanks again.
 
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Feel better, Ruthanne 🌹
 
MarciKS said:
Ruthanne I'm going through similar issues right now and I just know one thing for sure...this will pass. It won't last forever. And know that you are cared about and loved right where you are in life. *HUGS*
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I kind of hope I die before I have to wait for things to be better. I'm getting too old for all this pain and everything that goes with it. I don't mean to be so negative just my thoughts right now.🤗💖
 
Ruthanne said:
I kind of hope I die before I have to wait for things to be better. I'm getting too old for all this pain and everything that goes with it. I don't mean to be so negative just my thoughts right now.🤗💖
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I understand. I really do. I wish I could make it all better for you!
 
Ruthanne, I wish I had some magical advice for you, but as others have said, we can only take it a day at a time.

My partner and I are really close to my SIL. She was diagnosed with breast cancer a couple of months ago. Her chemo was delayed due to her getting Covid. She is now in the midst of chemo and was just diagnosed with a UTI so she had to be put on antibiotics. She just can't catch a break. We are spending Christmas with her. It will be a very somber one, but I'll be happy to be with her for support.

I lost both of my parents right before and after Thanksgiving, so I understand these times can be especially tough. Just know that we in this forum care about your well-being and are sending good thoughts your way. I'm so sorry about your sister's passing and wish the best for your precious Suzy.
 
seadoug said:
Ruthanne, I wish I had some magical advice for you, but as others have said, we can only take it a day at a time.

My partner and I are really close to my SIL. She was diagnosed with breast cancer a couple of months ago. Her chemo was delayed due to her getting Covid. She is now in the midst of chemo and was just diagnosed with a UTI so she had to be put on antibiotics. She just can't catch a break. We are spending Christmas with her. It will be a very somber one, but I'll be happy to be with her for support.

I lost both of my parents right before and after Thanksgiving, so I understand these times can be especially tough. Just know that we in this forum care about your well-being and are sending good thoughts your way. I'm so sorry about your sister's passing and wish the best for your precious Suzy.
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Thank you. Peace and love ❤️ to you and yours.
 
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