Please pray

A lesson here for all. Get those directives in place.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
 

I am also praying for you, your sister, and the family. These things are hard to go through. As was said already, the forgiving part is not so much for her, as it is for your own peace inside.
I remember as a child, my mom telling me that it was okay to hate a person's behavior or actions; but to still love the person. It was really hard for me to separate the two, and sometimes, it still is; but when I can get around to that perspective in my mind, it is easier to forgive the person.
 
BDBoop, I'm sorry for your pain. Cry, and cry some more. With each tear, let some of your pain go. The more you can speak of your pain the less it will bury deep inside you. If you need to cry, and there is no one hear, tell us. I promise to hear you.
 
I am sorry for your loss, Pappy. This one, my sister? She loved Christmas. I just realized if she would have died on my birthday in a few weeks, she would have died as far from Christmas as she could get.

My beautiful sister, January 18, 1970 - May 29, 2014

Love you, my brown-eyed girl

 
Sadly, you lost your sister twice, BDBoop. Now is the time for you to retrieve her in your memories as the childhood companion you loved so much. May those memories heal your broken heart. Take care for yourself at this unhappy time and use us as your sounding board as much as you need to. It is OK to feel conflicted.

You are still in my thoughts and prayers.
 
Dame Warrigal said:
Sadly, you lost your sister twice, BDBoop. Now is the time for you to retrieve her in your memories as the childhood companion you loved so much. May those memories heal your broken heart. Take care for yourself at this unhappy time and use us as your sounding board as much as you need to. It is OK to feel conflicted.

You are still in my thoughts and prayers.
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I was reminiscing today. Her first word was french fry. Seriously. I just wanted to swing through and thank those praying for us, because we sincerely appreciate it. Bless you all.
 
Thank you. I am talking with the man who cared for her during the last six months of her life, he is completely shattered. There's a lot of that, though. So many people who knew her from the time she was little-little are showing up on FB to reminisce.
 
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