LadyEmeraude
Senior Member
Would you rather be on an airplane between two arguing passengers or sit next to a screaming infant?
I had a similar experience. My second daughter was born just 12 months after my first daughter, almost to the day. I was so frazzled and had virtually no support; neither set of parents offered to help, and my then-husband was 50 miles away at his job in DC. One day was particularly bad; she'd been crying all morning. (I'm pretty sure she was picking up on my stress level.) At one point I knew if I went back into her bedroom and picked her up I may have shaken her, so I went into my bedroom and shut the door, went into the en suite bathroom and shut the door, and then into the walk-in closet and shut that door.I remember when my youngest was teething and would...not...stop...screaming...for hours. I was sitting her that day and I had a major tooth ache to boot.
I calmly picked her up...hugged her...then put her down in her cradle. Then I went outside and smoked a bunch of cigarettes quickly until I calmed down.
I've heard of cases of 'shaken baby syndrome'. But that day...the crying...the toothache...but I managed to keep my cool. Anyone with a bit less patience may have done something to regret.
So I'd take the two arguing passengers over the screaming baby any day of the week.
I'd take the arguing passengers.Would you rather be on an airplane between two arguing passengers or sit next to a screaming infant?
You can speak up.Can't do anything about a screaming infant because the cause is not always possible for a parent to address. But flight attendants can do something about adults arguing. Temporary inconvenience of adults arguing needs to be taken in stride.
Really annoying is having a passenger that is a stranger next to you that won't shut up when you want to nap.
You are better off but sometimes one has no choice , both my daughters are in Ca so once in while head there but yes hate flying .I am planning no flying in the near future, or distant future for that matter..
dittoargument between 2 passengers