Questions Women Ask a Man They're Interested In

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I'm wondering if this is a trend these days.
Today, for the third time, I was asked an interesting question:
I walk in a park almost every day. It's a dog-friendly park; many people have their dogs off leash, even though it's not an off-leash dog park (which I like because I love being approached by animals).
Last week, while I was petting her dog, a woman asked me "Do you live alone?" Not "Are you married?" or "Are you single?" or "Do you have a girlfriend?"
I guess that's because many people live with someone but aren't married & she didn't want to waste her time with a guy who has a live-in girlfriend.

A few days ago, a woman asked me, "What area do you live in?" (She got right to the point....house value, money.....etc.) LOL.

Today, a Chocolate Lab walked up to me with a tennis ball in his mouth & dropped it. Of course, I picked it up & threw it for him to retrieve 12 times. His owner - a woman around 50) asked me an even more interesting question I've never heard before: "Is your health good?" LOL!!! I replied, "Well, my health isn't too bad, but I'm OLD"

I'm starting to wonder if there is a shortage of men these days. 😂
 
Is there a shortage of men? The older you are, the more the answer is YES. Men tend to die off younger than women. Check in any senior home, and it's predominantly female. I became permanently disabled at age, 60. According to law, I didn't have to wait till I was 65 to be a member of my local senior citizens center. I remember my first time there. I walked in and all, but four guys were women ( mostly widows), and they were checking me out. That was the first time (and only) in my life when I felt like a stud.
Stud Muffin, alias fuzzybuddy.:)
 
When i was in Southern California, I used to ask men I was dating,
"Do you know what and easy-out is?"
Only one man knew what it was. The others all said "An excuse to get out of a date." The ones that answered that? Dumped them.
The one that knew the answered correctly? married him.

I'd also make sure they could start a fire in my fireplace. The guys in California, swear to God, they couldn't

My questions are a little different now when I get to know a man, but checking out his intelligence is a priority!
I would not be so forward as to go up and ask if a man were married. They usually reveal that in their first sentence to me.
I'm aloof! A man has to make the first move with me. haha, and pretty strongly because I can be rather dense! haha!
 
Gaer said:
When i was in Southern California, I used to ask men I was dating,
"Do you know what and easy-out is?"
Only one man knew what it was. The others all said "An excuse to get out of a date." The ones that answered that? Dumped them.
The one that knew the answered correctly? married him.

I'd also make sure they could start a fire in my fireplace. The guys in California, swear to God, they couldn't

My questions are a little different now when I get to know a man, but checking out his intelligence is a priority!
I would not be so forward as to go up and ask if a man were married. They usually reveal that in their first sentence to me.
I'm aloof! A man has to make the first move with me. haha, and pretty strongly because I can be rather dense! haha!
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The men in Northern Cal can not only start the fire without a match or lighter, they'll chop down the tree, split it into logs, and stick em in the fireplace they built. Go North, young lass!
 
Gaer said:
When i was in Southern California, I used to ask men I was dating,
"Do you know what and easy-out is?"
Only one man knew what it was. The others all said "An excuse to get out of a date." The ones that answered that? Dumped them.
The one that knew the answered correctly? married him.

I'd also make sure they could start a fire in my fireplace. The guys in California, swear to God, they couldn't

My questions are a little different now when I get to know a man, but checking out his intelligence is a priority!
I would not be so forward as to go up and ask if a man were married. They usually reveal that in their first sentence to me.
I'm aloof! A man has to make the first move with me. haha, and pretty strongly because I can be rather dense! haha!
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Well, I can start a really-hot fire.
But I don't care for fireplaces.
 
Wonder if the lockdown is a contributing factor to this trend. These ladies may be trying to rev up their collection of social connections perhaps?
 
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Llynn said:
Wonder if the lockdown is a contributing factor to this trend. These ladies may be trying to rev up their collection of social connections perhaps?
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I don't know. But I'm waiting for an even more amusing question: "Are you vaccinated?" 😂
A couple of women I only know casually went to hug me recently & I warned them, "Be careful....I'm not vaccinated."
It didn't stop them.
Oh well. When ya got it............
 
IrisSenior said:
Ummmm...maybe she was just being polite and making conversations or maybe she was thinking a dog would be good company. Gee, I would never ask a man when I saw him the first time if he lived alone whether I was interested or not. As for throwing the tennis ball 12 times...were you interested in her or the dog?
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As with most people, mainly the dog.
"Polite" is "Hi, how are you?"
 
Murrmurr said:
The men in Northern Cal can not only start the fire without a match or lighter, they'll chop down the tree, split it into logs, and stick em in the fireplace they built. Go North, young lass!
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I KNOW! I'm in the wrong place! Maybe even the wrong WORLD! hahaha! Last time, i had to travel to Alaska to find a REAL MAN!
Nope, i'm here! He's gonna have to find ME ! Aw, I am adjusted to being alone and it's fine!
it's wonderful to know there are a few MEN out there!

I think the reason women are so sexually aggressive now is because we have been in our homes for the last year and are feeling quite licentious.
One must still behave like a lady though!
 
This thread reminded me of my father-in-law. When he was 85yrs old because of health issues he had to move into a nursing home. As soon as he moved in a woman that lived there said he was her husband. He didn't want to hurt her feelings so he went along with it. 2 years later he passed away and the woman grieved so much that her family had to take her home for a month. It made me really sad for her.
 
hollydolly said:
Are these younger women coming right out and asking these questions, Win?... perhaps they see a good looking older sugar Daddy.... and maybe they think you'll be so flattered you won't care that they're stroking your wallet...

hello.. mr solo rich man... Luff you long time.. :ROFLMAO:
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Actually, they look around 45-50. Maybe they think I'm around their age. People tell me I look young.
 
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