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I've been married to a black woman for 21 years now. It's my second marriage so we don't have kids. When I was young the thought of marrying outside of my race just never occurred to me. If for no other reason than the races just did not mix back then where I was. I mean not at all. I never even had an actual conversation with a black person until I was in the Air Force. And even then they were pretty superficial. No soul bearing or anything like that.
I don't even think about it us being of different races anymore. I haven't noticed us being treated any different because of it. Well I take that back. Occasionally white people will seem to go out of their way to be nice to us I suppose trying to show how tolerant they are. It was kind of interesting when we went to my 50th High School reunion and it seemed like there were people trying to compete with each other to get us to sit at their table for dinner. I've always been an introvert and was pretty much a social outcast in High School. Finding a place to sit in the lunch room where I wouldn't get the side eye was a challenge. Of course that's pretty standard in High School. If you stray outside of your clique you quickly get put in your place.
@Trade
In post #149 in the High School picture thread you look very much like a handsome first cousin of mine. (I thought you might be black or bi-racial). He was a year ahead of me in high school, and he passed away earlier this year.
On another note, interesting how interracial couple Lucy & Ricky Ricardo (white woman/Cuban man) were not only accepted but adored. :shrug: