Lara
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What about the unbeliever? Are believers required to forgive them...like the monster I mentioned in the last paragraph of post#20?
The car accident driver in post#19 could well have been a believer who just made a big mistake so, yes, we would need to forgive her. I don't think we're required to forgive the monster though because God doesn't forgive sins until one becomes a believer John 3:16.
The dilemma there is that we are not the ones to judge whether anyone is sincerely a believer in their heart or not. Only God knows that for sure...although, God does say "By their fruits ye shall know them" (Matthew 7:20). And that becomes crystal clear in the case of the monster in post#20. His crimes continued over the lifetime of the young girls...so where was the good fruit in his life? He wasn't even sorry aka repentant.
But we should all certainly forgive people who just made a mistake and are sorry and don't want to continue that behavior. This is how I see it anyway.
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The car accident driver in post#19 could well have been a believer who just made a big mistake so, yes, we would need to forgive her. I don't think we're required to forgive the monster though because God doesn't forgive sins until one becomes a believer John 3:16.
The dilemma there is that we are not the ones to judge whether anyone is sincerely a believer in their heart or not. Only God knows that for sure...although, God does say "By their fruits ye shall know them" (Matthew 7:20). And that becomes crystal clear in the case of the monster in post#20. His crimes continued over the lifetime of the young girls...so where was the good fruit in his life? He wasn't even sorry aka repentant.
But we should all certainly forgive people who just made a mistake and are sorry and don't want to continue that behavior. This is how I see it anyway.
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