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Welcome, @Astarte ,
Hang in there. You are far tougher than you think. You are not alone in a day to day life.
You told us about being "thrown away" , BUT those that did it to you are not worth feeling bad over.
If you have reasonable health, you can make a new life for yourself.

Many others here on Senior Forums have survived tragic problems. So can you. :)
 
Welcome! I used to work 60 hours but cut it down to 50. 60 was too much. I'm sure your mother didn't mean what she said, that was the dementia talking. But yes this is a good place to get connected! I just recently joined myself and I love it. :D
 
Astarte said:
Why I feel thrown away easy response: My Mother got sick with Alzheimers and Dymensia I cared for her until she died the Sunday before she died on Tuesday she told me I needed to stop loving her because she never loved me she only loved my sister. My

ex husband divorced me to marry a woman with more money then he died after 25 years of marriage he left and said he didn't care if i died in the street. Thrown away.

When my husband divorced me the church I had taught Sunday School in for many, many years made me stop teaching Sunday School because I was a divorcee. Thrown away. So now I am scared to love or to trust anyone so I am stuck in lonely hell but can't find the strength to trust so it's a viscious cycle.
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First, you should not think that your mother threw you away. She had Alzheimers. No telling what went through her mind.

your ex husband loved money. Likely he would have left ANYONE in pursuit of money.

Churches can have some very strange ideas. There are thousands of churches which wouldn't take any notice of your divorce. In any event, HE, divorced you, not the other way around.
 
@Astarte Late hello from me.

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Welcome Astarte, …..
welcome….to this great site , with lovely peeps who listen to you……..
you are not alone, i can assure you …….
stay positive a focused ……
we are here for you !!!
 
charry said:
Welcome Astarte, …..
welcome….to this great site , with lovely peeps who listen to you……..
you are not alone, i can assure you …….
stay positive a focused ……
we are here for you !!!
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Thank you and Hello!
 
Victoria said:
Welcome! I used to work 60 hours but cut it down to 50. 60 was too much. I'm sure your mother didn't mean what she said, that was the dementia talking. But yes this is a good place to get connected! I just recently joined myself and I love it. :D
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Thank you!
 
senior chef said:
First, you should not think that your mother threw you away. She had Alzheimers. No telling what went through her mind.

your ex husband loved money. Likely he would have left ANYONE in pursuit of money.

Churches can have some very strange ideas. There are thousands of churches which wouldn't take any notice of your divorce. In any event, HE, divorced you, not the other way around.
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agreed!
 
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