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Josiah09 said:
I think QS's generalization about men with money may have some validity, but I'm sure that there are plenty of accomplished men who are looking first and foremost for an accomplished women with some real character and depth and these are more likely than not more mature women.

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Gigolo would be the word most often used.
 

Josiah09 said:
I think QS's generalization about men with money may have some validity, but I'm sure that there are plenty of accomplished men who are looking first and foremost for an accomplished women with some real character and depth and these are more likely than not more mature women.

I cite as an example Mr. Ameriscot's choice. :)
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accomplished certainly and with good taste in the case of mr ameriscot...but I think AS would be the first to say although not broke, that Mr A is certainly not a millionaire in monetary terms..
 
Never married and no desire to marry at this point. Im too set in my ways to adjust. Plus I'm happy.
 

Do you really think that being a millionaire or not changes the way an accomplished man will choose a partner. What a jaundiced view, I stand by my statement. Whether a millionaire or not many men are looking for character and not a bimbo.
 
Josiah09 said:
Do you really think that being a millionaire or not changes the way an accomplished man will choose a partner. What a jaundiced view, I stand by my statement. Whether a millionaire or not many me are looking for character and not a bimbo.
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I think we KNOW why an old man wants a youngster.. It's status... they can buy anything.. even companionship.. AND there are no shortage of "bimbos" who are very happy to be the commodity. It's a win/win.

With all due respect Josiah.. YOU are not a woman... and you are not an "older woman".. You have no idea what happens and how men tend to look right through old ladies as their eyes seek out the purty young thing in the room. It was an adjustment for me.. and I think for others who used to be the purty young thing. Now of course I couldn't care less.. I have become the accomplished older woman and I stand up equal to the best of the men out there.. I have learned to relocate my "market value" lol!!
 
Josiah09 said:
I think QS's generalization about men with money may have some validity, but I'm sure that there are plenty of accomplished men who are looking first and foremost for an accomplished women with some real character and depth and these are more likely than not more mature women.

I cite as an example Mr. Ameriscot's choice. :)
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Why, thank you, Josiah! :)
 
hollydolly said:
accomplished certainly and with good taste in the case of mr ameriscot...but I think AS would be the first to say although not broke, that Mr A is certainly not a millionaire in monetary terms..
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No, not a millionaire. He was a headteacher in London, great pension(s). But spending the money in Scotland where the cost of living is much lower than London.
 
Josiah09 said:
Do you really think that being a millionaire or not changes the way an accomplished man will choose a partner. What a jaundiced view, I stand by my statement. Whether a millionaire or not many men are looking for character and not a bimbo.
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I would agree with that. Most men do not want a young, brainless bimbo, at least not for very long. Good for sex. That's it.
 
QuickSilver said:
I think we KNOW why an old man wants a youngster.. It's status... they can buy anything.. even companionship.. AND there are no shortage of "bimbos" who are very happy to be the commodity. It's a win/win.

With all due respect Josiah.. YOU are not a woman... and you are not an "older woman".. You have no idea what happens and how men tend to look right through old ladies as their eyes seek out the purty young thing in the room. It was an adjustment for me.. and I think for others who used to be the purty young thing. Now of course I couldn't care less.. I have become the accomplished older woman and I stand up equal to the best of the men out there.. I have learned to relocate my "market value" lol!!
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I think some men may be like that, but it's no different than buying a hooker. Fine for a short time I guess, but who wants a continous 'relationship' with someone who is only with you for your money and is probably faking any sexual interest in you? A man who is rich is more likely to want someone he can also have an intelligent conversation with, someone cultured, not one who only cares about fashion and how she looks.
 
Ameriscot said:
I think some men may be like that, but it's no different than buying a hooker. Fine for a short time I guess, but who wants a continous 'relationship' with someone who is only with you for your money and is probably faking any sexual interest in you? A man who is rich is more likely to want someone he can also have an intelligent conversation with, someone cultured, not one who only cares about fashion and how she looks.
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ha! Maybe for their first marriage.. But the older and richer they get.... the old model gets tossed for the new sportier version... and it's not "conversation" they are interested in...




https://www.psychologytoday.com/blo...306/very-wealthy-men-marry-much-younger-women

3. When analyzing remarriages of the very wealth men, they tied the knot with women who were on average an astonishing 22.32 years younger than them. Needless to say, this finding is highly statistically significant when compared to the average age difference for remarriages for the US population (p = 0.002 or p = .011 depending on which population estimate is used).
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The OP said she was looking for a man with money.... So I'm just throwing out the old Snowball's chance in Hell analogy.. Nothing against the OP, but a very RICH man will want youth and good looks first... Conversation he can have at the Club with his rich buddies.
 
Call me cynical or jaded but here is what I have deduced from what I have seen and experienced. In my world, these are the choices the wealthy accomplished older man has, in the order of who is is able to obtain. Remember this is about the older rich man and who are his first and last choices.

1. A younger very attractive accomplished and intelligent woman with her own money..... if he can't get this one, he must resort to the next one down
2. A younger very attractive accomplished and intelligent woman with little or no money.
3. A younger very attractive unaccomplished but somewhat intelligent woman with no money.
4. A younger less attractive accomplished woman with her own money.
5. A younger less attractive accomplished woman with money.
6. A younger less attractive unaccomplished woman with little or no money.
7. A woman his own age who is attractive and accomplished and has her own money.
8. A woman his own age who is attractive and accomplished but with much less money than him.
9. A woman his own age who is attractive but less accomplished and no money.
10. A woman is own age who is less attractive and less accomplished but has money.
11. A woman his own age who is less attractive and less accomplished and has no money.
12. Anyone who will have him.

If the rich man chooses a woman his own age who is less attractive and has no money, then she's obviously very exceptional in some way and he must love her very much.

Please feel free to disagree or correct me on any of these points.
 
At the moment I will take any man....good.......bad....or....indifferent.....with...or...without money....preferably with.:badgirl::sobad:
 
Well, my wife WASN'T looking for a young, rich, really handsome dude when she met me!

I did have a job, but I sure wasn't making the salary she was as an Accountant (with a major Degree). In fact, I was on an hourly wage of $10.50 per hour. I was renting a room in a condo and she was her mom's roommate. My only transportation was an older motorcycle and she had a much newer Toyota 4-Runner. I had no banking account, due to State/Federal taxes that I owed and we paid off in one year. Didn't owe that much, but we did pay it off and she didn't have a problem helping me pay it off. I explained the absolutely DUMB reason that it happened (I owed) and she understood. Come to find out, she had also owed State/Federal tax at one time and got that paid off. I also owed the VA Medical some money that we also took care of.

Six months after meeting her, I got laid-off from my job. By that time, we were already living together, she had on an Engagement Ring and we were planning a wedding. We stayed together and worked around my "lay-off".

But, what she wanted, she got in me:
A Christian man, that didn't have a problem going to church on Sunday's.
I didn't smoke, but I did "dip" Skoal Longcut. That didn't bother her.
A rodeo guy that could handle a rope and ride a horse.
Could do a 2-step and liked Country music, as she did.
Loved wearing Western attire, as she did.
Loved to cook.
And other things.

So, obviously not every 50 year old woman wants a rich, young, hot looking dude. Although, when wearing my cowboy attire, she told me I was "HOT" looking.
 
ClassicRockr said:
Well, my wife WASN'T looking for a young, rich, really handsome dude when she met me!

I did have a job, but I sure wasn't making the salary she was as an Accountant (with a major Degree). In fact, I was on an hourly wage of $10.50 per hour. I was renting a room in a condo and she was her mom's roommate. My only transportation was an older motorcycle and she had a much newer Toyota 4-Runner. I had no banking account, due to State/Federal taxes that I owed and we paid off in one year. Didn't owe that much, but we did pay it off and she didn't have a problem helping me pay it off. I explained the absolutely DUMB reason that it happened (I owed) and she understood. Come to find out, she had also owed State/Federal tax at one time and got that paid off. I also owed the VA Medical some money that we also took care of.

Six months after meeting her, I got laid-off from my job. By that time, we were already living together, she had on an Engagement Ring and we were planning a wedding. We stayed together and worked around my "lay-off".

But, what she wanted, she got in me:
A Christian man, that didn't have a problem going to church on Sunday's.
I didn't smoke, but I did "dip" Skoal Longcut. That didn't bother her.
A rodeo guy that could handle a rope and ride a horse.
Could do a 2-step and liked Country music, as she did.
Loved wearing Western attire, as she did.
Loved to cook.
And other things.

So, obviously not every 50 year old woman wants a rich, young, hot looking dude. Although, when wearing my cowboy attire, she told me I was "HOT" looking.
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We weren't talking about 50 year old women wanting a rich young dude... we were talking about RICH old men wanting young beautiful women.
 
Well, I sure wasn't a RICH old man wanting a young beautiful woman. My wife was certain cute and still is, but I knew, back then, my limits for getting a beautiful woman. I dated a pretty beautiful "younger" woman a number of years before meeting my wife, but it didn't last long. I simply couldn't afford her lifestyle and she broke it off with me. She ended meeting a dude that fitted her lifestyle much better and I actually congratulated him for being with her.

QuickSilver said:
We weren't talking about 50 year old women wanting a rich young dude... we were talking about RICH old men wanting young beautiful women.
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halalu said:
Now that I am older, experienced and living the last days of my time on this planet, I am ready to experience something I haven't done before. I think that I will try to get married. I think that I am deciding to get married because I know the chances of finding someone to marry are almost zero to null. I would like to try it.

Old on old what do you think about that?

Oh yeah, the job did not work out. I had to leave before they smothered and choked what life I still have out of me. So, I am on another adventure or two adventures husband shopping and looking for work. :rolleyes:
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I know two bachelor farmers. 60 and 61 years old, never married, dont smoke or drink, attend church. Lots of land and money. If you have a good sized farm, herd of young cows, and a good tractor with cab, they may be interested.
 
GeneMO said:
I know two bachelor farmers. 60 and 61 years old, never married, dont smoke or drink, attend church. Lots of land and money. If you have a good sized farm, herd of young cows, and a good tractor with cab, they may be interested.
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OHHHHHH You don't have to be lonely.... at Farmers Only.com.. Heee hawww
 
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