I can never travel alone. I see couples holding hands and I feel sad.We went on a 7-day cruise to the Greek Isles last September. We've been to Greece many times but it was still rejuvenating to get away. We went to Florida for 4 days over New Year's to visit family. It was great. I'm going on a 7-day Caribbean cruise by myself on March 13 (my Partner works). I'm looking forward to the warmth, good food and entertainment and getting lost in a good book. Just a change of scenery will do wonders.
Since my partner went back to work in August 2020 I am used to being by myself so I think it has prepared me. It is going to be very weird but I need to get away.I can never travel alone. I see couples holding hands and I feel sad.![]()
I'm used to being alone. A bit of bitterness here and there but it's still a good life. Thank you for your kind words.Since my partner went back to work in August 2020 I am used to being by myself so I think it has prepared me. It is going to be very weird but I need to get away.
I was supposed to have traveled with a friend this month but couldn't make it due to an ice storm in Dallas. She just got back today and gave me a full run-down of what a great time she had. She is not a Night Owl like I am but she said the evening entertainment was fantastic. I will be out all night and will be sleeping in every day.
Hang in there. I know you want someone in your life. I'm sure you will find him because you seem to be a great person. Just be sure to enjoy your own company first.
I’ve been alone 4 years. I can’t imagine vacationing alone. I would feel so lonely. You are a confidant man. I have learned a lot about myself living alone.Since my partner went back to work in August 2020 I am used to being by myself so I think it has prepared me. It is going to be very weird but I need to get away.
I was supposed to have traveled with a friend this month but couldn't make it due to an ice storm in Dallas. She just got back today and gave me a full run-down of what a great time she had. She is not a Night Owl like I am but she said the evening entertainment was fantastic. I will be out all night and will be sleeping in every day.
Hang in there. I know you want someone in your life. I'm sure you will find him because you seem to be a great person. Just be sure to enjoy your own company first.
@dseag2 your vacation is coming up soon. I hope it's wonderful and relaxing. I'm going away by myself next month. My SO still works and has limited vacation time so this trip will be without him. Like you, a change of scenery will do wonders for me, too. I wish you safe travels, calm waters, clear skies and good memories to last a lifetime.We went on a 7-day cruise to the Greek Isles last September. We've been to Greece many times but it was still rejuvenating to get away. We went to Florida for 4 days over New Year's to visit family. It was great. I'm going on a 7-day Caribbean cruise by myself on March 13 (my Partner works). I'm looking forward to the warmth, good food and entertainment and getting lost in a good book. Just a change of scenery will do wonders.
I also wish you all the best for your upcoming vacation!@dseag2 your vacation is coming up soon. I hope it's wonderful and relaxing. I'm going away by myself next month. My SO still works and has limited vacation time so this trip will be without him. Like you, a change of scenery will do wonders for me, too. I wish you safe travels, calm waters, clear skies and good memories to last a lifetime.
Sounds crazy, I know, but an international trip for me both excites and calms me. I enjoy the anticipation leading up to the trip including researching the places I'd like to see then the travel itself. Arriving in a foreign country stimulates all of my senses. I take it all in. Once I get to the hotel, drop off my luggage in my room and freshen up, I start my exploration.Studies show frequent three or four day trips are just as revitalizing
as longer vacations, so get going!
Do you/have you...and where?
I do exactly the same as you Leann , when I arrive at a new place overseas... drop my bags and off out exploring.. .. however in answer to the OP. I do go away for a couple of days here or there but never overseas.. Just to an English/ Scottish or Welsh Coastline... or take a train to France for a couple of days.. not Paris, I hate Paris, but there's many other places to visit just on a 2 or 3 day trip... without having to take a plane..Sounds crazy, I know, but an international trip for me both excites and calms me. I enjoy the anticipation leading up to the trip including researching the places I'd like to see then the travel itself. Arriving in a foreign country stimulates all of my senses. I take it all in. Once I get to the hotel, drop off my luggage in my room and freshen up, I start my exploration.
Remember when we were kids and there were so many things new to us? That's how I feel when I travel. It's unfamiliar and yet I welcome it.
There are a few caveats, though. Age is catching up to me and I probably only have a few more of these international respites in me. As much as I love it, it does take a lot of energy. And there is the financial component. I do my best to conserve finances including traveling off-season which helps. But it all still costs money. Now that I'm fully retired, I'm on a fixed income so that places limits.
I've been to many places so I can't and won't complain. I'll just relive the memories when I need a little getaway.
That's one of the many things I love about Europe, the relative close proximity of many other countries that can be reached by train, car or plane.I do exactly the same as you Leann , when I arrive at a new place overseas... drop my bags and off out exploring.. .. however in asnwer to the OP. I dod go away for a couple of days here or there but never overseas.. Just to an English/ Scottish or Welsh Coastline... or take a train to France for a couple of days.. not Paris, I hate Paris, but there's many other places to visit just on a 2 or 3 day trip... without having to take a plane..