Scenario: Would you tell your friend? read below.

[Alligatorob]

would you have said anything to him or to
your friend Judy about what you saw?

No, first of all I would not consider it any of my business, and secondly without a better understanding of the people and context I would fear making the wrong judgement...

 

[spectratg]

As to the derogatory names for the other gal with Ron, I admit that it may not be likely but it is possible that she might not have even known he was married. Now if you're thinking to yourself, "Aw, cmon; in this day and age with google and all; she had to have known he was married." True, but: some of these guys use the tactics my dad used, 1) my wife and I are still legally married but separated, 2) my wife and I are soon to be separated, 3) Although I long to be not only separated but divorced from my wife, I dare not do so because of the children [yeah, right], yadda yadda.

There is always the chance that the woman is also married and cheating on her husband.

 

[Knight]

@LadyEmeraude

I don't think anyone asked this.

Is your friend still married? What do you know if anything how her life has been since what you describe took place 15 years ago.

 

[LadyEmeraude]

@LadyEmeraude

@ Knight, scroll back to page 3 of this thread, I posted update there

 

[Chet]

It's juicy but I'd stay out of it, and observe those involved like a fly on the wall to discuss with a confidant. Sounds like fun.