Sex Without Love, is a Meaningless Experience

What semantics do you use to describe something, or sex in particular, as meaningless?

Edit: Oops, my bad. Breezer already answered this very question in the thread title.
 
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As was said about the "Free Love" movement of the 60s, It wasn't Free, and it wasn't Love, but it wasn't bad...
 
smiley said:
All or most animals do it but not one has ever explained the difference between that and love?
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Love doesn't need sex in my opinion. What if your husband or wife is disabled in a way that no sex is possible anymore? Love is still there, isn't it?

Love and sex are totally independent. And sex without love isn't a meaningless experience as I stated before. Sex and love as all actions are never meaningless. All what someone does has a meaning.
 
smiley said:
All or most animals do it but not one has ever explained the difference between that and love?
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My rabbit is castrated but totally in love with his new girlfriend. But when he wasn't castrated yet he chased the older rabbit who died recently. She was hiding behind a wall. I had to help her.

True love is a dog who sacrifices his life to save his humans from a house fire.
 
smiley said:
but what is love really I hear there is real love and counterfeit love ??
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I heard there were types. Agape, philia, storge (family). Counterfeit is not love. I agree with Tina Turner.

If you marry someone out of lust and dump em when they get sick or cheat on them with half the neighbourhood, that sounds more like hate to me.
 
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physiologically sex obviously has a functional purpose - it's NOT just about love. It's also about procreation - I once read about a forest tribe of humans were the women were very dominant ; strong willed and all lived alone from the men together in a forest glade. When they wanted sex or pregnancy they invaded the mens village and had their way with the men? - just saying??
 
My case is surely different, but for me sex without love was indeed meaningless. As a young gay man, I had multiple partners because I was looking to fulfill some need within myself for validation and prove that I was valued by someone else. This was only because I didn't value myself. I was always safe and I had a few relationships come from the encounters, but mostly people wanted a one night stand and moved on. It made me feel more empty than if I'd never met them. I'm sure my respose may turn some off but the question was asked so I'm answering.

Fortunately I met my hubby 34 years ago. More of our attraction was cerebral than physical and I think that's why we've lasted so long.
 
horseless carriage said:
An 80-year-old lady because she had just gotten married for the fourth time.
Previously she had first married a banker when she was in her 20's.
Then, in her 40's, she married a circus ringmaster.
On reaching her 60's she had married a preacher.
Her new husband's occupation is that of a funeral director.

So when the local journalist who was running the story and seemed quite surprised,
commented on the diversity of her husband's careers she simply explained:
"I married one for the money, two for the show, three to get ready, and four to go."
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Okay HC....I gotta share this one! :D:ROFLMAO:
 
A husband leans over and asks his wife, "Do you remember the first time we had sex together over fifty years ago? We went behind the village tavern where you leaned against the back fence and I made love to you." "Yes," she says, "I remember it well." "OK," he says, "How about taking a stroll around there again and we can do it for old time's sake?" "Oh Jim, you old devil," she chuckles, "that sounds like a crazy, but good idea!"

A police officer sitting in the next booth heard their conversation and, having a chuckle to himself, he thinks to himself: "I've got to see these two old-timers having sex against a fence. I'll just keep an eye on them so there's no trouble," so he follows them. The elderly couple walk haltingly along, leaning on each other for support aided by canes.

Finally, they get to the back of the tavern and make their way to the fence The old lady lifts her skirt and the old man drops his trousers. As she leans against the fence, the old man moves in.. Then suddenly they erupt into the most furious sex that the policeman has ever seen. This goes on for about ten minutes while both are making loud noises and moaning and screaming. Finally, they both collapse, panting on the ground.
The policeman is amazed. He thinks he has learned something about life and old age that he didn't know.

After about half an hour of lying on the ground recovering, the old couple struggle to their feet and put their clothes back on. The policeman, is still watching and thinks to himself, "this is truly amazing, I've got to ask them what their secret is." As the couple pass by he said to them, "Excuse me, but that was something else. You must've had a fantastic sex life together. Is there some sort of secret to this?"
Shaking, the old man is barely able to reply, "Fifty years ago that wasn't an electric fence."
 
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