My family is about half Southern Baptist and I grew up going to a Southern Baptist church whenever my paternal grandmother was around. So this is no surprise to me, I can tell worse tails. Instead I'll tell a good one.
My father died in 2015 and had not been to church since 1948. When he died he asked to be buried by his Baptist Church of childhood in a small Louisiana town. It was left to me to contact the minister, I was fearful that we couldn't get it done. The Baptist minister was very nice about it and said that "anybody is welcome back anytime", he did a very nice ceremony. If I was a believer I'd have probably joined his church.
The Mormons are moving ever so slowly towards more rights for women, I think they are on the 1,000 year plan. However it is hard to forget their excommunication of a woman,
Sonia Johnson, in 1977 for supporting the ERA... They are still far short of equality, see Mormonism and women (
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mormonism_and_women).
Actually as an agnostic I agree with you. I'm a supporter of religious freedom and the right of any church or organization to set their own rules on things like this. Just so long as that freedom allows folks not to join or leave freely... Doesn't mean I have to like it or agree.