Stand by your principles are you a forgive and forget type of person or not

carouselsilver said:
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Sorry to have to disagree, but when I found that my ex had died, I drew a sigh of profound relief. He brutalized me, cheated on me, tried to molest our baby daughter and came close to murdering us both. I couldn't think of one good reason for him to continue to take up space on this planet. After I escaped from him, he murdered someone and blew up someone else's car.


Oh my good god!!.... how terrifying for you CS.... and thank God he didn't succeed in the molestation of your baby ! Is he in Prison now ?
 

hollydolly said:
Sorry to have to disagree, but when I found that my ex had died, I drew a sigh of profound relief. He brutalized me, cheated on me, tried to molest our baby daughter and came close to murdering us both. I couldn't think of one good reason for him to continue to take up space on this planet. After I escaped from him, he murdered someone and blew up someone else's car.


Oh my good god!!.... how terrifying for you CS.... and thank God he didn't succeed in the molestation of your baby ! Is he in Prison now ?
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He did the murder back in the 80's when we had gotten away from him. I happened to be spreading out a newspaper for my daughter to do crafts on and saw that he was one of the headlines. He had stabbed some guy multiple times. In the 90's I was doing some geneaology research, and got curious about his whereabouts, so I looked his name up in the social security death index and found him there. As I said, I could only feel intense relief since I was always looking over my shoulder after we parted ways.
 
carouselsilver said:
He did the murder back in the 80's when we had gotten away from him. I happened to be spreading out a newspaper for my daughter to do crafts on and saw that he was one of the headlines. He had stabbed some guy multiple times. In the 90's I was doing some geneaology research, and got curious about his whereabouts, so I looked his name up in the social security death index and found him there. As I said, I could only feel intense relief since I was always looking over my shoulder after we parted ways.
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Jeez.. thank God he's gone.. he can't hurt you, your daughter or anyone else in this world..

That's exactly how I felt when my father died!!
 

carouselsilver said:
Grahang wrote:"We are the lucky survivor's yes, though reading a post above yours suggests there is some question mark over whether or not we've become hardened, (what would any of us think if our ex's were to leave this mortal toil?)
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carouselsilver said:
Sorry to have to disagree, but when I found out my ex had died I threw a sigh of profound relief. He brutalised me, cheated in me, tried to molest our baby daughter and came close to murdering both of us. I couldn't think of one good reason for him to continue to take up space on the planet. After I escaped he murdered someone, and blew up someone's car.
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Apologies, (not the average case then).
 
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grahamg said:
Apologies, (not the average case then).
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No need to apologize! It's easy to assume that the couple started out loving each other, but in my case, with that dude, it was one of the worst mistakes I ever made. The only good thing that I got out of it was my little girl, who is now the proud mother of three children!
 
carouselsilver said:
No need to apologize! It's easy to assume that the couple started out loving each other, but in my case, with that dude, it was one of the worst mistakes I ever made. The only good thing that I got out of it was my little girl, who is now the proud mother of three children!
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A fair response there, (anyone who has even come close to a divorce, let alone anyone who has gone through an acrimonious one, knows just how impossible life can become in a household without any harmony or love, (love that makes any sense anyway!)!
 

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