Aneeda72
Well-known Member
I don’t know how therapy works where you are or where Ronni is, but I tried to get therapy for my husband three times. When the therapists refused to give him individual therapy, I insisted he get psychological testing for certain issues.
The testing came back that he had issues, needed medication, and therapy. He was referred to a psychiatrist. The doctor refused to treat him unless he started to put holes in the walls, hit me, or we did couples therapy.
Over the years I came to realize that we were not a couple and never have been a couple. He always puts himself first, always has, always will. Therefore, I am never going to couples therapy. My point? Where I am there would be no therapy unless all three went together, because its a relationship problem.
The testing came back that he had issues, needed medication, and therapy. He was referred to a psychiatrist. The doctor refused to treat him unless he started to put holes in the walls, hit me, or we did couples therapy.
Over the years I came to realize that we were not a couple and never have been a couple. He always puts himself first, always has, always will. Therefore, I am never going to couples therapy. My point? Where I am there would be no therapy unless all three went together, because its a relationship problem.