bingo
Senior Member
- Location
- southeast illinois
your hands are tied...I suggest removing your emotions and yourself from all this as much and as soon as you can.......My daddy is a proud man. though I have sensed a nervousness about him lately. he would not want to get us involved in something he considers so personal. he gets confused at times but is lucid 85-90% of the time. My sister has been trying to get him to make out a will. any kind of documentation of his wishes. she is already a POA on health concerns, along with his partner. not sure about financials. I know the partner is "executor" for his savings account, which is a bit substantial for one who supposedly has no money, according to her.
he's decided all this...you cannot undo it...I am sorry...your own health is important too