Exactly right. The moment you let a teenager hold a gun, you will see their true character. And you might not like what you see. The one thing they'll immediately recognize is that a gun feels powerful, and they'll either fear it, respect it, or wield it; nothing else. That's why we have age limits on sales.
Actually, this is true of anyone who doesn't have any experience with firearms, or who's never been familiarized with them...and by that I mean, never heard "the lecture."
Certain people's attitude toward handguns in particular has become ridiculously and frighteningly casual over the past 20 years or so. Handguns came to represent a certain persona, and not a right to protect yourself and your loved ones but a right to erase your perceived enemies; someone you think disrespected you, who fired you from your job, challenged your manhood, took your stuff, your lady, your parking spot.
In my very firm opinion, this is a social ill. And I have a strong opinion about its origin. I don't know of any way to solve the problem except to start with an in-depth study and then create a solid plan. This has been suggested in congress, but I suspect it hasn't been done because they are afraid such an approach would be perceived as racial and discriminatory (and they'd lose their seat). That's tragic, because it would be so informative. And there's no better tool to solving the problem than information.
"Erase an enemy who took your lady." Brought back a memory for me:
40 years ago, when I found out my wife was cheating on me. I started divorce proceedings. The guy she cheated with was the real estate agent who sold us our house. He was married with 3 young kids.
Several months earlier, my ex hung one of my silhouette targets from one of my competitions up in the garage. Apparently, my ex & her guy entered the house through the garage. I got a phone call from him. The conversation:
Him: "Hi, I'm Steve."
Me: "Yes, I know who you are; you're the guy with no class or character."
Him: "Well, maybe, but I'm concerned."
Me: "Concerned about whether I'll tell your wife you're a cheater? Don't concern yourself; you probably deserve each other."
Him: "That's not what I'm concerned about. I'm concerned about my life."
Me: "Why tell me that?"
Him: "Well, I saw your target in the garage & I'm afraid I'll look like it; it's got really big holes in it."
Me: (laughing) "You weren't concerned while you were boinking my wife, but you're concerned now? You have nothing to worry about for three reasons:
1: You can have her all to yourself; we're divorcing.
2: You can't possibly think you're worth me spending several years in prison; I have better ways to spend my time; besides, I actually feel sorry for you.
3: I use high-quality ammunition & it costs $.50 per shot. You aren't worth $.50."
Him: "I guess I deserve that."
Me: "Yes, you do."