Advice-wise when I see the Lil Woman mulling something over stuff I'll let her sort it out as she will.
I never just jump in with "help" unless its something critical or possibly injurious. What good is
a Contradiction, 180 degrees the other way and a change of time frame subject?
Knowing I just can't fix it, meaning well with the mouth is critical. About half the time
she'll sooner or later ask, other times she'll have her own ideas and ask for comments.
Only then do I offer my thoughts----life is better that way when she comes to her own conclusions.
Mean well comments are absolutely a negative idea of the moment. Wait, patience, shiver and quake!