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In Scotland there is a proposal to raise this to twelve years of age. I believe it is currently ten throughout the UK. Your thoughts.
It's just a bit of tidying up really. While the age of responsibility is currently 8, which is clearly too young, children of this age cannot be put before the courts.
We are simply bringing ourselves into line with most of Europe.
In these days of feckless parenting many adults don't know the difference between right and wrong, let alone 8 tear okds!
Some interesting points, but think back to when you were ten tears old or even younger.
I'll wager you knew very well what would get you a whomping if you got caught!
A little "natural" upbringing wouldn't go amiss is some cases.
A lion cub who takes food is soon taught the error of its wats!
Yes! Kids who were whomped but grew up "normal" did it in spite of spanking not because of it.IMHO effective parenting like effective dog ownership should not include beating or " whomping" or whatever silly terms you want to use. Seriously if I knew then what I know now...wouldn't have had any human kids at all. But by the time I had dogs I understood. I am the all mighty food giver person. If you make me happy very wonderful things can happen. But make me say your name a certain way...oh no, you do not even want to IMAGINE what could happen, no no no...that is authority.
The consequences of physical punishment can go haywire in so very many ways. Some kids will end up becoming cowed by authority enough to behave and stay in line and all that good stuff. For some kids it can lead to fear and depression...which can end up leading to self medicating or self harm. At the other end are kids who begin ticking in early childhood. Spanking and beating make them even more angry and unstable. Those are the kids who end up committing serious crimes.
I'm in favor of the old adage, "if you do the crime you do the time" at any age.
But.
I feel consideration of type of punishment should be made if the non adult was physically and or mentally abused or is mentally ill.
A four year old doesn't have the intellectual capacity for much of anything. A unlocked loaded pistol should never be accessible...in that case the owner of the gun is at fault, not the child.
IMHO effective parenting like effective dog ownership should not include beating or " whomping" or whatever silly terms you want to use. Seriously if I knew then what I know now...wouldn't have had any human kids at all. But by the time I had dogs I understood. I am the all mighty food giver person. If you make me happy very wonderful things can happen. But make me say your name a certain way...oh no, you do not even want to IMAGINE what could happen, no no no...that is authority.
The consequences of physical punishment can go haywire in so very many ways. Some kids will end up becoming cowed by authority enough to behave and stay in line and all that good stuff. For some kids it can lead to fear and depression...which can end up leading to self medicating or self harm. At the other end are kids who begin ticking in early childhood. Spanking and beating make them even more angry and unstable. Those are the kids who end up committing serious crimes.
I was certainly never "beaten," nor anything closely resembling that. I could expect a "whomp" on the backside if I seriously misbehaved (not like for not cleaning up my room or something like that, but for instance the time I very misguidedly told my mother to shut up, and in the presence of my father, no less). Didn't do me any harm, and taught me early on that actions have consequences.